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Technical Superiority: Why Intuition Can’t be Found in Books

If you think reading more or taking additional courses will give you all the answers, this story will change your mind.

In 2020, Netflix dropped a brilliant mini-series called The Queen’s Gambit, centred around a quiet but formidable orphan named Beth Harmon who rises through the male-dominated world of competitive chess.

An encyclopaedic knowledge of chess fuels Beth’s rise, yet she repeatedly faces moments where raw intellect isn’t enough.

In those moments, she doesn’t play the game by convention. Beth plays it by instinct.

And as she climbs the ladder, beating seasoned grandmasters in smoke-filled rooms with nothing but her calm glare and lightning mind, you realize something:

Beth isn’t just memorizing chess patterns. She’s seeing them.

In The Queen’s Gambit, Beth Harmon’s chess mastery did not come from memorization alone, but from moments where she closes her eyes and feels the board.

But there’s a painful story before she fully mastered chess.

The Short Story of Beth Harmon

You see, Beth was orphaned at a young age, after which she was placed in an institution where she first discovered chess.

Later, she was adopted by Alma Wheatley, a kind woman who recognized Beth’s extraordinary talent and supported her chess career despite knowing little about the game herself.

As Beth plays more professional chess, she begins to rely heavily on study and technical preparation, developing an obsessive relationship with perfection and channelling it to her games.

While Beth rises to the top of the chess world and reaps the financial benefits of her success, her performance worsens because of her increased dependency on drugs and alcohol.

However, Alma had been watching Beth’s journey and understood that true mastery required more than just technical knowledge. Or reliance on substances and alcohol abuse.

Alma had also learned something that all the chess books and training couldn’t teach and tried to pass this wisdom to Beth throughout their time together and this fell to deaf ears.

You see, Beth disregarded Alma because she didn’t really know much about chess.

But as Beth grew older and faced increasingly difficult opponents, she began to understand what Alma had been trying to tell her.  A full mastery of chess will only come from the source of technical superiority.

I will come back to technical superiority in a bit.

Eventually, as Beth faced increasingly sophisticated opponents, she discovered there was something missing from all her preparation. In her final breakthrough moment, Beth recalls Alma’s words which makes her rethink everything she thought she knew about mastery.

Her adoptive mother Alma, watching her obsess over strategy books, once told her: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Pause and let that sink in.

When its meaning dawns on you, keep reading.

Now let’s talk about technical superiority.

Technical Superiority

In football, technical superiority is what happens when a player has mastered the basics to such an elite level that they can create space and time out of thin air.

Regardless of pressure, system, or opponent, these football players execute the fundamental techniques of the game with precision, control, and consistency.

Technical superiority means having better ball mastery, allowing for more creative, efficient, and confident play than opponents.

The best football players in the world have this trait.

It’s why Messi can weave through defenders not just with speed but with minimal touches.

Technical superiority is why Iniesta always had three passing options even in a 2-square-meter box and dictated the pace of their football games.

It’s how Cristiano Ronaldo had a consistent ability to strike from distance or volley with both feet.

Technical superiority is not just about skill.

It means doing the basics so well that they become weapons.

It’s about that rare combination of feel, timing, and instinct that can’t be drilled into you.

You either sense the opening, or you don’t.

Now apply this to your life.

Think of the moments you got stuck in analysis paralysis because you didn’t trust your instincts.

The relationship you stayed too long in because the logic made sense… but your heart felt trapped.

The job offer you took because the pay was good… but your chest tightened every morning you had to show up.

How many times have you ignored the quiet whisper inside you because you couldn’t explain it yet?

How many times have you delayed the right move because you couldn’t find it in a manual, a course, or a quote from a Harvard business review article?

Apply Technical Superiority to your Life

 

Don’t confuse knowledge with knowing

We’ve been raised to believe that mastery is only acquired through accumulation.

Read more books.

Watch more tutorials.

Take one more course.

But the truth is… There comes a point when more information blinds you.

Where you’ve read so much theory you can’t hear your own thoughts.

You’re academically sound, yes… but spiritually deaf.

What Alma, Beth’s adoptive mother said wasn’t just a warning.

It was an alarm.

A code-red for the overeducated, overinformed generation who confuse knowledge with knowing.

Intuition can’t be found in books.

You can’t Google it.

You must live it.

You must sit with yourself in silence.

Feel your own patterns.

Watch your own mind.

And eventually, you’ll start to see the board.

Not the one they taught you in class.

The one that only your eyes can see.

And when you do…

You’ll stop playing by memory.

You’ll start playing by mastery.

This life is not a textbook.

It’s a chessboard. It’s a football game.

And no two games are ever the same.

Stop trying to memorize every outcome.

Instead, trust that feeling.

That strange but familiar sense that something is either deeply right or unmistakably off.

Train and hone this feeling by practicing what you have learned and consistently execution

The algorithm can’t teach you that.

Only you can.

Play Life to hone and master your technical superiority

So please, whatever story you’re living through right now…

Don’t search for all the answers on someone else’s page.

This is your move.

And now, once and for all, let the books serve their purpose and trust what they cannot teach.

Remember Alma’s words: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Now go show the world how your game is played.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

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Obsession: 5 Steps to Peak Performance

Obsession is your most powerful lever for achievement, when it’s wielded with intention.

After interviewing ultra-successful individuals for decades, Joe Rogan observed a single trait in all of them. Everyone who is good at something is obsessed with it. They think and talk about that thing all the time. Obsession is the only way you can be great at something.

In simple terms, fleeting enthusiasm rarely moves the needle.

The Problem:

Most people are comfortable, making casual efforts which bring out casual results.

In a world full of distractions, they will always find plausible reasons to scroll, snooze, or switch tasks. This means they stop when things get inconvenient, not when the job is done. Even if they “finish” things, these tasks don’t matter.

Plenty of people work hard but few of them leave a mark.

Marc Andreessen has a famous quote on how to tackle this problem.

“The world is a very malleable place. If you know what you want, and you go for it with maximum energy and drive and passion, the world will often reconfigure itself around you much more quickly and easily than you would think.”

The Solution is Obsession

Become obsessed with whatever you are working on.

You risk being mediocre in a world that rewards obsession. Here is what happens you don’t have obsession:

  • Your goals take longer to achieve or never materialize because you are not obsessed to make consistent efforts.
  • If you’re not deeply engaged, your work will lack excellence or innovation.
  • Habits like distraction or avoidance become ingrained in your life over time.

Obsession

The key isn’t vague motivation but a clear, five-part framework you can put to work today:

  1. Define a compelling mission that pulls you forward
  2. Build routines and environments that lock in focus
  3. Establish a deliberate learning system to sharpen your skills
  4. Anticipate and overcome the pitfalls that derail most people and
  5. Measure your progress to keep the momentum alive.

Follow these steps, and you’ll turn raw enthusiasm into a structured, sustainable obsession that drives real results.

I will explain these steps in detail below, but you must first understand why obsession is important.

Why Obsession Matters

Firstly, Obsession doesn’t mean burnout.

There’s a difference between a healthy obsession and its destructive counterpart. Healthy obsession can mean 90 – 120 minutes of laser focus with two 5-minute breaks. Meanwhile, destructive obsession states you constantly need to skip sleep and social life.

Obsession doesn’t mean you ignore your family, health, or rest.

It means you care deeply. And you show up consistently for what matters most. Obsession is having intense focus during work periods while maintaining boundaries and other life priorities.

There are so many famous people who adopted this form of obsession and stayed at the top of their fields.

CASE STUDY #1: Serena Williams (Obsession with Excellence)

Serena won 23 Grand Slam titles, the most by any tennis player in the Open Era.

From age 3, Serena engaged in training drills for hours. Even during pregnancy, she trained and returned to win Grand Slams. Yet she openly prioritized motherhood and rest, setting boundaries around her career.

Obsession made Serena unstoppable.

CASE STUDY #2: Steve Jobs (Obsession with Simplicity & Design)

Steve made Apple one of the most iconic companies in history and transformed consumer tech forever.

He cared about every detail. From fonts, colors, to packaging. Yet, Steve took long walks to think, set clear boundaries with staff, and valued zen simplicity.

With obsession, Steve Jobs created insanely great products.

CASE STUDY #3: Marie Curie (Obsession with Scientific Discovery)

Marie won two Nobel Prizes in Physics and Chemistry for her work on radioactivity.

She worked with extraordinary dedication in her laboratory, often for 12+ hours daily in dangerous conditions. Marie still balanced this phase with her family life, raised two daughters and maintained close relationships.

Obsession made Marie Curie successful in science and family.

CASE STUDY #4: Jesus Christ (Obsession with His Mission)

Jesus was laser-focused on His divine mission: to seek and save the lost.

He worked from dawn to dusk healing, preaching, and mentoring his disciples. Yet Jesus regularly withdrew for prayer, and maintained close friendships. He also took time for meals and rest with his inner circle.

With obsession, Jesus changed the course of human history and built the most enduring spiritual movement.

Develop a Healthy Obsession

Now that you see how legendary figures harnessed obsession, let’s break down exactly how you can build the same momentum in your own life.

Five Steps to Obsession

To have obsession is to develop intense focus during your work periods while maintaining broader life priorities.

And once you become obsessed, you can reach the top of your field.

This leads to step one.

Step 1: A Compelling Mission

Obsession begins with Clarity.

Choose a goal that excites you deeply, emotionally charged and meaningful.

Jesus had the “Kingdom of God.” Musk has “multi-planetary civilization.”

Why obsess over something if it doesn’t truly matter?

Write down what you want and why it deeply matters.

An example can be: Having 100,000 Dollars in investments to achieve financial freedom and build stability.

Step 2: A Designed Routine

Obsession shows up in your calendar.

Block out specific, distraction-free time daily or weekly for deep work on your mission.

Serena Williams cut non-tennis activities during training seasons.

Also, build rituals. Make it as simple as possible.

Use the same time, same place and the same tools.

An example can be: Every Sunday evening, do a quick budget review to track income, expenses and progress towards your mission. Use 2 Hours every morning to develop your highest-leverage skill

Step 3: A Learning System

Obsession thrives on mastery.

Create a method for continuous skill development within your focused time.

Kobe Bryant watched hours of game footage. Chimamanda Adichie studied great writers.

This can be deliberate practice routines, regular feedback from mentors, tracking specific metrics. Or it can be studying the work of masters in your field.

Build a system that makes learning inevitable. Books, podcasts, mentorships, courses. Stack them around your goal.

Set a learning schedule. Don’t just work, get smarter.

An example can be: Listening to one podcast on personal finance during your commute and reading two chapters of a money book every week.

Step 4: A Daily Obsession Feed

What you feed grows. What you starve dies.

Read, listen, and think about your mission daily.

Jesus withdrew to pray daily. Steve Jobs walked to think clearly.

Surround yourself with content, people, and habits that reinforce your mission.

Your obsession must be visible. On your wall. In your phone. In your thoughts.

Create rituals that keep the fire burning, even when motivation fades.

An example can be: 10 minutes daily reading on making money and investing. Watch an inspiring video every morning to maintain an abundance mindset.

Step 5: A Feedback Loop

Obsession without direction becomes burnout.

Schedule regular periods (weekly and monthly) to step back and assess your progress on your mission

Marie Curie published findings early to stay driven. Jesus often did Q&A with His disciples to make sure they understood his teachings.

Ask yourself – What moved the needle in your mission? What didn’t?

Also track inputs, not just your outcomes (e.g. hours worked, pages written, user interviews).

Reflection is the compass that turns obsession into elevation.

An example can be: Reviewing your finances every Sunday night: How much you saved, what you spent on, and how it aligns with your freedom goal.

Five Steps to Obsession

Staying Obsessed Leads to Your Highest Self

Obsession isn’t a flaw. It’s a fast track to your highest self.

When you’re obsessed, you gain clarity about who you are and what truly matters. It forces you to grow and raise your standards. Obsession demands depth and that depth reveals strengths, talents, and power you didn’t know you had.

So, stay obsessed, not for perfection, but for transformation.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. Become Your Highest Self: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on how to master money, mindset and meaning. Please confirm your subscription via mail so the newsletter goes straight into your inbox.
  2. Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you.  This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
  3. Personal Wealth Maximizer: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximizer give you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.

 

Financial Wealth: 3 Simple Pillars of Mastering Money

Financial Wealth is not just about accumulating more money.

It’s about defining and achieving a life that aligns with your values and well-being. There is a reason why the endless chase for more fails to bring lasting satisfaction.

From Sahil’s global bestseller book, I will lay out a simple, three-pillar model (plus practical systems) to build sustainable financial security on your terms.

Everything is right in this article, so please stay with me and let’s learn together till the end.

The Big Question: “What’s Your Definition of Enough?”

Once asked by a reporter how much money was enough money, business tycoon and billionaire John D. Rockefeller replied,

“Just a little bit more.”

This is the modern-day Sisyphean struggle. Our hedonic adaptation ensures that each financial win quickly becomes the new baseline for dissatisfaction. Society celebrates perpetual growth in pursuing money, and contentment is mislabelled as laziness.

Yet, we have seen that true wealth includes five pillars: Time, People, Purpose, Health, and Financial Wealth.

Beyond Financial Wealth: 5 Types of Wealth

Beyond Financial Wealth: 5 Types of Wealth

You Must Define Your “Enough Life”

Your “Enough Life” can be modest or lavish.

Consciously articulate where you live, what you own, what you spend time doing, who you spend time with, and your financial cushion. The truth is…. You can never achieve true financial wealth if your expectations outpace your assets.

Defining your “Enough Life” explicitly shifts the quest from endless accumulation to purposeful balance.

Modern Money is full of Illusions

In recent times, money increasingly feels abstract.

Money has slowly transitioned from a medium of exchange in the reality of the physical world to something that often resembles a fantastical creation of the human imagination. There are more digital banks and different types of online money schemes. It’s like a theme park of gimmicks.

To stay focused on making and keeping money, you must avoid shiny distractions.

Focus on the “boring basics” that reliably build financial wealth.  You don’t have to “ride every ride”. Consistency with simple principles over time will help you win.

The Three Pillars of Financial Wealth

Financial Wealth grows by converting short-term net cash flow into long-term compounders via three pillars:

Pillar 1: Income Generation
Cultivate stable and growing cash inflows: primary job, side hustles, passive streams.

This is the basic model. You can also build marketable skills (e.g., sales, writing, software). Then leverage those skills across a risk spectrum (from getting a job to venturing entrepreneurship).

Pillar 2: Expense Management
Keep outflows reliably below inflows.

Manage lifestyle creep. This is when you get that extra money, but instead of saving more of it, you slowly start spending more and more without even really noticing. Focus on the essentials instead.

The essentials are budgeting, automating savings, having a rainy-day fund (6 months of expenses), and conscious spending.

Pillar 3: Long-Term Investment
Invest the gap between income and expenses in low-cost, efficient assets to capture compound interest.

To do this, note that your time in the market beats timing the market. Start investing early. Your earlier investments yield exponentially greater returns.

The 3 Pillars of Financial Wealth

The gap between income and expenses is your most important financial tool. The larger it grows, the more you must invest and compound.

Closing this gap requires a knowledge of the five levels of financial wealth.

The Five Levels of Financial Wealth

Your journey can be mapped across five distinct levels.

Each level is defined by your needs, pleasures, and financial independence:

1: Baseline Needs: Food, shelter, and basic security are covered.

2: Modest Pleasures: Discretionary spending on dining out, simple vacations, education.

3: Saving & Compounding: Focus shifts toward aggressive saving, investing, and fund building.

4: Moderate Independence: Passive income covers a portion of your lifestyle. Active income can be reduced.

5: Complete Independence: Passive returns exceed all expenses; active work becomes optional.

The dollar thresholds in each level are personal and driven by your defined “Enough Life.” And each level requires disciplined application of the three pillars.

Systems for Success: The Financial Wealth Guide

Here are eight high-leverage systems to maximize your financial wealth.

You need not adopt them all. Simply select what resonates.

  1. Defining Your Enough Life
  2. Financial Wealth Hacks I Wish I Knew at Twenty-Two
  3. Seven Pieces of Career Advice (Income Generation)
  4. Six Marketable Meta-Skills (Income Generation)
  5. Seven Basic Principles of Expense Management
  6. Eight Best Investment Assets (Long-Term Investment)
  7. The Return-on-Hassle Spectrum (Long-Term Investment)
  8. The Single Greatest Investment in the World (Self-Investment)

System 1: Defining Your Enough Life

Here are the prompts to craft a vivid image of your ideal life:

  • Location & Home: House, apartment, multi-location living?
  • Social Circle: Family proximity, friends, community.
  • Daily Activities: Work, hobbies, mental focus.
  • Possessions: Material items that bring genuine joy.
  • Financial Profile: Necessary income, savings rate, safety net size.

Use this vision to measure the gap from current reality and plan actionable steps to bridge it. Then revisit every few years to keep growing consciously.

System 2: Financial Wealth Hacks I Wish I Knew at Twenty-Two

This includes key habits to accelerate your journey:

  • “$30,000 Questions”: Focus on big-impact financial decisions (investment fees, negotiating salary, mortgage rates) over trivial savings (coffee).
  • Emergency Fund: Build 6–12 months of cash buffer to reduce money anxiety.
  • Automate Savings & Investments: Commit a fixed percent of income (e.g., save 10%, invest 20%).
  • Credit Discipline: Treat credit cards like debit; pay in full monthly.
  • Quality over Quantity: Buy durable items worth splurging on; cut ruthlessly on the rest.
  • “Test Everything”: Try premium subscriptions, then downgrade after a review period.
  • Be Generous & Frugal: Save on things you don’t value; spend without guilt on what matters.
  • Index Funds Are a Free Lunch: 90%+ of portfolio in low-cost diversified funds.
  • Stay Invested: Automate monthly contributions; ignore market swings.
  • Tip More: Small holiday gifts to service workers spread goodwill.
  • Thirty-Day Rule: Wait before nonessential purchases to curb impulse buys.
  • Negotiate Recurring Bills: Cable, insurance, phone—save hundreds each year.
  • Mindset Matters: Knowing your numbers and aligning spending with values improves your money psychology.

System 3:  Seven Pieces of Career Advice (Income Generation)

  1. Create Value, Receive Value: Focus on delivering outsized value and money follows.
  2. Swallow the Frog: Do your boss’s hardest tasks first to build momentum.
  3. Master the Basics: Eye contact, punctuality, reliability, kindness. Your small actions with these basics will bring big impact.
  4. Work Hard, Then Smart: Hard work builds your reputation and leverage follows.
  5. Build Storytelling Skills: Data + narrative = persuasive communication.
  6. Be Reputable for “Figuring It Out”: Demonstrate resourcefulness and people will fight to work with you.
  7. Dive Through Cracks: Seize imperfect opportunities to create upward momentum.

System 4: Six Marketable Meta-Skills (Income Generation)

Learn these deployable skills that amplify income engines:

  • Sales
  • Storytelling
  • Design (including AI-directed design)
  • Writing (clarity of thought)
  • Software Engineering (leveraging AI)
  • Data Science

6 Marketable Meta-Skills to build Financial Wealth

System 5: Seven Basic Principles of Expense Management

  1. Create & Stick to a Budget: Track every category and gamify hitting targets.
  2. Automate Savings: “Pay yourself first.”
  3. Credit Cards = Cash: Zero balances every month.
  4. Rainy-Day Fund: Six months of living expenses.
  5. Budget for Experiences: Treat enjoyment as a planned line item.
  6. Plan for Big Expenses: Weddings, vacations, cars. Avoid new debt.
  7. Manage Expectations: Keep lifestyle creep in check and ensure income outpaces expenses.

System 6: Eight Best Investment Assets (Long-Term Investment)

This is a starting point for research. Not all these assets are necessary for every portfolio:

  1. Stocks: High returns, high volatility.
  2. Bonds: Lower returns, principal safety.
  3. Investment Property: Leverage amplifies returns but low liquidity and management headaches.
  4. REITs: Real estate exposure without landlord chores.
  5. Farmland: Inflation hedge, low correlation, but illiquid and high entry barriers.
  6. Small Businesses/Start-Ups: Potentially outsized returns, high failure risk, time-intensive.
  7. Royalties: Income from copyrights; low correlation but taste-driven risk.
  8. Your Products: Highest control and fulfilment; majority fail, but success scales.

System 7: The Return-on-Hassle Spectrum (Long-Term Investment)

Evaluate your assets not only on risk-adjusted returns but also “hassle-adjusted” returns.

For instance, low-hassle assets (e.g., index and mutual funds) often deliver the best net benefit for most investors. On the other end, start-up investing may offer opportunities for ten times or even a hundred times investment appreciation, but it is also incredibly risky.

System 8: The Single Greatest Investment in the World

Invest in Yourself unconditionally: education, skills, health, and relationships.

Also, apply a Thirty-Day Rule for material purchases. Delay nonessential buys by 30 days and redeploy savings into self-investment.

Still Focus on the Broader Wealth Matrix

Money Solves Money Problems, but not deeper life questions.

Your financial wealth is a tool to cultivate your Time Wealth, Social Wealth, Mental Wealth and Physical Wealth. Financial Wealth is the foundation, not the finish line.

Define your unique “Enough Life,” master the three pillars, apply these high-leverage systems, and deploy your resources to enrich all dimensions of a truly wealthy existence.

That’s all, my friend.

I hope this helps and keeps you grounded.

Godspeed and cheers.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. Become Your Highest Self: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on how to master money, mindset and meaning. Please confirm your subscription via email so the newsletter goes straight into your inbox.
  2. Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you.  This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
  3. Personal Wealth Maximizer: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximizer give you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.