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Fun is Key: Why Enjoyment Is the Ultimate Life Strategy

You cannot compete with someone who understands that fun is key to maximising life.

Think about it.

The person enjoying themselves has energy to spare. They show up early, stay late. And they don’t count the hours.

Meanwhile, stressed people are rationing their last drops of motivation, hoarding their energy like it’s the apocalypse.

Most people don’t love what they do. They’re simply pushing through. The average person clocks in at work or business, does the bare minimum and then waits for weekends or retirement to feel alive again.

However, those who rise above average are playing a different game entirely.

They’re not chasing comfort. They’re chasing enjoyment. Because when you’re having fun, you move differently.

You think faster. And you can take risks. You also recover from setbacks quickly.

Here’s what nobody tells you:

Fun isn’t the reward you get after success.

Fun is the mechanism that creates success. It’s not dessert; it’s the main course.

And once you understand this, everything changes.

Knowing Fun is Key is so Underrated

By fun, I don’t mean the mindless “scroll TikTok or Instagram for hours” kind.

In this context, fun is the immersive, fully present kind. It’s the kind that lights you up inside. Having fun is where time disappears, and you forget to check your phone.

Here’s the crazy part: this type of fun is what creates discipline.

It’s what sustains consistency. It’s what keeps your energy high when everyone else burns out. This is why fun is key.

You can’t compete with someone who’s having this kind of fun. Because they’ll keep showing up long after you’ve quit.

Why Fun is Key to the Engine of a Great Life

We often treat fun as a luxury.

Most people still see fun as something we earn after the “real work” is done. This is backwards.

Fun is not the reward for hard work. Fun is the fuel for hard work.

1. Fun is Key because it increases agency

Agency is your feeling of being in control of your life and actions.

When you’re enjoying something, you feel more in control.  You choose to do it. Not because you have to, but because you want to.

This shift from obligation to enthusiasm changes everything.

It’s the difference between dragging yourself to the gym and looking forward to testing your strength. Fun puts you in the driver’s seat. You’re no longer living life by external rules.

By having fun, you’re designing your own game.

2. Fun is Key because it Builds Discipline

The biggest myth about discipline is that it requires constant suffering.

Real discipline is consistent action. And nothing drives consistent action better than enjoyment. True discipline is devotion sustained by enjoyment.

Fun is Key

Fun is Key

Think of a gamer who plays for hours, mastering a level. Or a musician repeating the same chord progression until it’s perfect.

When you find fun in what you’re doing, repetition stops feeling like punishment.

It becomes practice. And that’s how you win.

3. Fun is Key because it Fuels Consistency

When you find the fun in a task, consistency stops being a struggle and starts being a preference.

You don’t force yourself to play a video game or watch your favourite show; you just do it. Consistency isn’t about forcing yourself to do things you hate. It’s about reducing resistance.

If your process feels good, you’ll return to it naturally. That’s why fun is the ultimate hack for long-term success.

4. Fun is Key because it Multiplies Your Energy

Have you noticed how doing something you love gives you more energy than rest ever could?

That’s because enthusiasm generates energy. When you do something you love, you’re not depleting yourself. You’re tapping into a deeper source. I call this “fun-based energy.”

When your life includes fun, you stop living in survival mode. You start to thrive.

The Performance Paradox: How Fun Helps You Achieve Goals Faster

Think of the most productive people you know.

The ones who truly excel. Are they miserable? Or are they engaged, focused, and often, joyful?

Here’s the paradox most people miss: The more fun you have, the faster you grow.

The people accomplishing the most aren’t suffering the most. They’re enjoying themselves the most.

Fun = Faster Progress

Fun unlocks what psychologists call intrinsic motivation.

This is doing something for its own sake. That’s the holy grail of productivity. No reward or threat can match the power of wanting to do something just because it feels good to do it.

Fun makes you generous with your effort.

You give more. Interestingly, you think deeper. You also show up even when no one’s watching.

It’s not about chasing dopamine hits. It’s about finding joy in the process.

Because when you love the process, results become inevitable.

Fun is the Trigger to the Flow State

The pinnacle of performance and enjoyment for work and life is the Flow State.

Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentmihalyi coined this term to describe that mental state where you are so completely absorbed in an activity that nothing else seems to matter.

What Flow Actually Is

Athletes call it “the zone.” Artists call it “being in the groove.” Whatever you call it, it’s the state where your best work happens.

And fun is the trigger that gets you there.

Why Fun Unlocks Flow

The key to unlocking flow, especially the autotelic experience (when the activity is rewarding in itself), is fun.

Flow happens when you’re challenged just enough to stay engaged but not overwhelmed. And fun is the emotional signal that says, “You’re right where you should be.”

When you’re having fun, your brain releases dopamine and endorphins. These are chemicals that sharpen focus, boost creativity, and make hard work feel effortless.

You don’t enter flow by trying to focus harder; you enter flow by making the task playful, engaging, and enjoyable.

If you can make your work feel like a game you love, you make peak and consistent performance your default state.

In short: fun is the gateway to flow.

How Fun Unlocks Greater Productivity

Most people try to work harder. The greats learn to enjoy harder.

Fun switches your brain from “survival” mode to “exploration” mode. Instead of obsessing over perfection, experiment and iterate. Take more shots.

Here’s what that does to your output:

  • You start sooner. No dread, no delay.
  • You focus deeper. Because curiosity replaces fear.
  • You recover faster. Mistakes feel like feedback, not failure.
  • You sustain momentum. You don’t need motivation—you want to keep going.

That’s how fun becomes a productivity engine.

Look at software engineers who get lost coding all night because it feels like solving a puzzle. Or writers who forget to eat because they’re deep in flow.

From this perspective, fun is not a distraction, but a multiplier.

Real People Who Made Fun Their Superpower

Look at the people dominating their fields. They’re not suffering their way to the top. They’re enjoying their way there.

1. Elon Musk: The Ultimate Gamer

Say what you will about him, but Musk genuinely enjoys building and scaling businesses.

Whether he’s launching rockets, building cars, or posting memes at 2 a.m., he approaches problems with curiosity, not dread.

 

He treats business like a massive sandbox for experimentation. And that playful mindset is what keeps him resilient despite failures.

2. Richard Branson: The Adventure Capitalist

Branson built Virgin by turning seriousness into fun.

From airline safety videos featuring music videos to jumping off buildings for PR stunts, his leadership philosophy is simple: “If it’s not fun, it’s not worth doing.”

That attitude built an empire and made people want to work with him.

3. MrBeast: Gamifying Content Creation

Jimmy Donaldson (MrBeast) built the biggest YouTube channel by treating content creation like an obsessive game.

Every video is a wild challenge that blends generosity with entertainment. MrBeast doesn’t just grind content. He plays it like a video game, levelling up ideas every time.

That’s why he’s unstoppable.

4. Simone Biles: Playing at the Highest Level

The greatest gymnast of all time doesn’t describe her sport as suffering.

Simone talks about the joy of flying through the air. The fun of nailing a new skill. The game of pushing boundaries.

Even after taking time away to protect her mental health, she came back because she missed the fun of competition and the experience of performing.

5. Don Jazzy: The Playful Mogul

Don Jazzy built one of Africa’s biggest record empires by keeping things fun.

Whether he’s joking with fans online or discovering the next big star, Don Jazzy approaches business like a jam session.

He once said, “I just like to make people happy.”

That’s his business model in one sentence. His curiosity, humour, and open spirit turned Mavin Records into more than a label. It’s a playground for creativity.

From these examples, the pattern is clear.

The ones who see life as a game never stop playing. And because they’re having fun, they can’t lose.

The Path to Enjoyment: Two Roads to Fun

Knowing fun matters is useless without knowing how to create it.

How do you inject fun into your life? First, you have two big choices:

  • Love what you do: Find joy in your current work, hobbies, or routines by changing your mindset.
  • Do what you love: Pursue activities or careers that naturally excite you, where fun is intrinsic, not forced.

A. Love what you currently do (The Mindset Shift)

You might not love your job right now.

That’s okay. But you can find fun in it by changing the way you approach it.

  • Gamify your tasks. Track your daily wins like points. Reward yourself for progress.
  • Learn in public. Share what you’re learning. Turning work into content makes it playful.
  • Find patterns. Treat challenges like puzzles, not problems.
  • Bring energy. Music, coffee breaks. Use anything that makes the day feel lighter.
  • Connect with others. Fun multiplies when shared. Laugh more at work.
  • Inject novelty: Change the order of your tasks, work in a new location, or use a new tool. Novelty sparks curiosity and prevents the “brain-fog” of routine.

B. Do what you love (The Life Design Shift)

While a mindset shift is powerful, a fulfilling life requires aligning your actions with your passions. This is about deliberately carving out time and space for the things that genuinely light you up.

  • Start a small creative project. Painting, coding, journaling. Start whatever excites you.
  • Spend time around people who energise you, not drain you.
  • Revisit childhood interests. You might find clues to your current passion there.
  • Blend work and play. Teach, build, or share around what you love.

Here’s the truth: fun is a skill. The more you practice it, the better your life becomes.

The Secret of Winners

The winners are not waiting for Friday. They’re not grinding for some faraway reward. The winners are having fun in motion.

The game is being played now, and the ones who’ll win are the ones enjoying it

– Donald Trump.

This is the secret that separates the exceptional from everyone else. It’s not talent. The secret is not connections. It’s not even hard work.

It’s that they’re having more fun.

And here’s the beautiful part: fun is available to everyone. You don’t need permission. Also, you don’t need resources. You just need to take it seriously.

Fun gives you flow.
Flow gives you consistency.
Consistency gives you results.

And results, over time, give you freedom.

Fun is not a luxury. It’s a strategy.

The man who loves walking will walk further than the man who loves the destination.

Fun is the love of the process, the game itself. That love builds stamina, resilience, and a spirit that outlasts sheer willpower.

Those who win in life aren’t just the most talented or the hardest workers. They are the ones who have the most fun playing the game.

It’s what separates the fulfilled from the frustrated, the energised from the exhausted, the playful from the pressured.

Fun is Key and Builds Other Attributes

Fun is Key and Builds Other Attributes

So, if you want to go far, having fun is key.
If you want to stay consistent, having fun is key.
If you want to live fully, having fun is key.

Because fun is key. And once you find it, everything else falls into place.

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Monsters and Doctors: Can People Really Change?

The theory of Monsters and Doctors came to life after watching a thriller series.

I watched this series this year and it got me confused for weeks after I finished watching it.

The series was about a young brilliant neurosurgeon who risked his career to save the life of a critically wounded boy. Nine years later, the boy now a charismatic young man reappeared to the surgeon, admitted to being a serial killer and disappeared again. The brilliant neurosurgeon felt guilty, deciding to kill this young man even though he was the one who saved him earlier.

Monster. That’s the name of the series.

What is this Series About?

In its simple fictional characters, Monster tackled complex realistic questions. Throughout the series, the characters showed that the line between good and evil is not always clear. Power in the wrong hands always corrupt those around it. And actions meant to do good can have devastating outcomes.

Much of the core battle in Monster is the ideological war between Tenma and Johan.

In the story, Tenma is the young brilliant neurosurgeon and believes all life is precious. Johan is the boy who was saved but grows up to believe all life is meaningless. Tenma represents the good side of humanity while Johan is the bad one.

The story becomes more interesting because of the sides they belonged to.

After Tenma’s first encounter with adult Johan, the doctor abandons his career to right his wrongs. Tenma believed it was his duty to pursue and kill Johan to make amends for the havoc being wrought about his former patient. Meanwhile, Johan continued to kill people and wants to break Tenma psychologically by making him a murderer.

Yet at the end, there is a twist.

Understanding the Original Monsters and Doctors

Hypothetically, if I asked you to choose between Johan and Dr. Tenma, who will you pick?

With this brief character overview, it is so easy to choose Dr. Tenma. He saves people and is a doctor. The doctor is the good guy.

However, there is a short story in the series that briefly explained the nature of Johan:

The Nameless Monster

Once upon a time, in a land far away, there lived a nameless monster.

The monster was dying to have a name.

So the monster made up his mind, and set out on a journey to look for one.

But the world was such a very large place.

The monster split in two, and went on separate journeys.

One went east.

The other headed west.

The one who went east came upon a village.

There was a blacksmith who lived at the village’s entrance.

“Mr. Blacksmith, please give me your name!” said the monster.

“I can’t give you my name!” replied the blacksmith.

‘If you give me your name, I’ll go inside you and make you strong,” said the monster.

“Really?” said the blacksmith, “If you make me stronger, I’ll give you my name.”

The monster went into the blacksmith.

And so, the monster became Otto the blacksmith.

Otto was the strongest man in town.

But then one day he said, “Look at me! Look at me! The monster inside of me is getting bigger!”

Munch munch, chomp chomp, gobble gobble, gulp.

The hungry monster ate up Otto from the inside out.

Once again, he was a monster without a name.

Next, he went into Hans the shoemaker.

However…

Munch munch, chomp chomp, gobble gobble, gulp.

Once again, he went back to being a monster without a name.

Then, he became Thomas the hunter.

But soon…

Munch munch, chomp chomp, gobble gobble, gulp.

Back he went to being a monster without a name.

The monster next went to a castle to look for a nice name.

He came upon a very sick boy who lived in that castle.

“If you give me your name, I’ll make you strong,” said the monster.

The boy replied, “If you can make me healthy and strong, I will give you my name!”

So the monster jumped right into the boy.

And the boy became full of vigor.

The king was overjoyed.

He announced, “The prince is healthy! The prince is strong!”

The monster became quite fond of the boy’s name.

He was also quite pleased with his royal life in the castle.

So he controlled himself no matter how ravenous his appetite became.

Day after day, despite his growing hunger, the monster stayed put inside the boy.

But finally, the hunger just became too great…

“Look at me! Look at me!” said the boy, “The monster inside of me has gotten this big!”

The boy devoured the king and all his servants.

Munch munch, chomp chomp, gobble gobble, gulp.

The castle was lonely now with everyone gone, so the boy left on a journey.

He walked and walked for days.

And then one day, the boy came upon the monster who had gone west.

“I have a name!” said the boy, “And it’s such a wonderful one at that!”

But the monster who went west replied, “Who needs a name? I’m perfectly happy without one. After all, that’s what we are – nameless monsters.”

The boy ate up the monster who went west.

At last he had found a name, but there was no longer anyone to call him by it.

Such a shame, because Johan was such a wonderful name.

What happens at the end of the series?

In the final episodes, Johan eventually comes face-to-face with Tenma and urges the surgeon to shoot him.

Tenma doesn’t go through with it, and then a drunk guy arrives and shoots Johan instead. The police show up on the scene. As it happens, Tenma is the only surgeon qualified to save Johan’s life.

Despite having embarked on a long, painful journey to eliminate the monster he had created, Tenma saves Johan’s life and ends up choosing good over evil yet again.

Monsters or Doctors

The Monster Series Poster – Monsters or Doctors

Are you part of the Monsters or Doctors?

Monster is a complex and thought-provoking series.

Maybe it can be a good watch for you. Just FYI, it has a slow burn with sentimental flashbacks but staying true to the end is worth it.

And then there are also old philosophical questions of the moral nature of mankind:

Can People Really Change?

Are people born good and they are later corrupted? Or are there some who are born evil? Can a person be completely evil and irredeemable?

Most importantly – Are we monsters or doctors?

It’s up to you to interpret.

Tai Lung: Never Crumble When Things Fail

Tai Lung is a complex villain in a simple story.

The wisest lessons can come from the simplest stories. In 2008, DreamWorks produced a timeless movie, “Kung Fu Panda,” which highlights the dreams of a clumsy giant panda named Po, as he tries to learn Kung-Fu while saving his village from the rampage of the savage snow leopard Tai Lung.

Rewatching Kung fu Panda made me realize this movie had everything.

A great storyline. Well-developed characters. Memorable lessons.

And the greatest lessons of the movie are learned with a focus on Tai Lung, the main antagonist of the story.

Who is Tai Lung?

The Leopard, The Legacy

Understanding Tai Lung

Whether as an upgrade of Tigress, a direct counterpart of Po or as Shifu’s fallen student, Tai Lung was a great villain.

Before the beginning of the movie, Tai Lung was in prison, and we get to know more about him from his escape from prison.

His ferocity. The quickness. His ability to make clever decisions. And his full mastery of kung fu.

As the story goes on, Tai Lung takes on the furious five (a group of his former kung fu master’s greatest students). He overpowers them with ease. His domination was so epic that Po trembled with the fear after hearing this encounter.

Yet in the final battle, this ferocious snow leopard loses to an easygoing big fat panda. Not because Po was quicker or stronger. Tai Lung lost because of three fundamental ideals

Read this to the end. There is a lot to unpack.

The Dangers of Pride and Entitlement

Shifu trained Tai Lung at the Jade Palace, raising him to believe he would become the Dragon Warrior.

However, when Oogway (Shifu’s master) denied him the title, the snow leopard revealed his true dark nature. He rampaged through the Valley, which led to his twenty-years in prison.

Tai Lung’s seething rage and fury did not fade, even after spending so many years in prison. His pride and arrogance did not leave him. Tai Lung’s entitlement mentality made him become the worst version of himself.

We see it clearly on his first encounter with Po:

Tai Lung: Who are you?
Po: Buddy, I... am the Dragon Warrior!
[bows over, panting from the stairs]
Tai Lung: [incredulous] You?
[laughs]
Tai Lung: He's a panda! You're a panda! What are you gonna do, big guy? Sit on me?
Po: Don't tempt me.

The eventual downfall of Tai Lung came from his denial and underestimation of Po.

Tai Lung also did not learn humility. And this virtue he lacked led him to crumble under the weight of expectations.

Crumbling Under the Weight of Expectations

This weight was not entirely the fault of Tai Lung.

Shifu filled his student’s head with the idea that he was destined for greatness. And gaining the dragon scroll was meant to be the physical representation of greatness of his years of kung fu training and mastery. Shifu also seemed to move on and never visited Tai Lung during his 20-year incarceration.

I know it’s not easy but Tai Lung should have moved on as well.

His next goal should have been simple. Focus on growing and improving yourself mentally, rather than seeking more strength and waiting for appreciation. Yet, Tai Lung allowed the weight of expectations to crush him.

Because of this weight, the former kung fu prodigy failed to understand and overcome the curse we are learning next.

The Ferocious Tai Lung

The Ferocious Antagonist of Kung Fu Panda

The Curse of Seeking Validation

Next to Oogway, Tai Lung is virtually the most skilled and dangerous Kung Fu Master alive.

The snow leopard had immense physical strength, was able to punch and tear his way through numerous armored opponents. He was a kung fu prodigy from childhood. The prodigy was the first student to master all one-thousand scrolls of kung-fu.

Yet he had a fatal flaw.

This flaw is perfectly seen in the snow leopard’s dialogue with Shifu after his prison break:

Tai Lung: [growls] I rotted in jail for 20 years because of YOUR weakness!
Shifu: Obeying your master is not weakness!

Tai Lung: You knew I was the Dragon Warrior! You always knew! 
But when Oogway said otherwise, what did you do? What did you do? NOTHING!

Shifu: You were not meant to be the Dragon Warrior! That was not my fault!

Tai Lung: Not your fault? Who filled my head with dreams? 
Who drove me to train until my bones cracked? 
Who denied me my destiny?

Shifu: It was never my decision to make!
[gazes at Oogway's shrine and picks up his staff]

Tai Lung: It is *now*. Give me the Scroll!

Tai Lung’s ultimate goal was to be the Dragon Warrior and be handed the Dragon Scroll, which he firmly believed was his destiny.

Despite his heartless and insensitive exterior, Tai Lung was naturally unassertive and insecure as well. He never believed in himself to start with, and needed the Dragon Scroll to believe.

Ironically as long as he could not believe in himself, he could never win against Po.

Believe in yourself

As an adult rewatching Kung Fu Panda, there are questions gleaned from the movie to understand yourself better.

  • Can I stay humble when winning?
  • Am I afraid to change my path when it is no longer sustainable?
  • Do I still search for other people’s approval to validate my success and experiences?
  • Are these dreams mine or someone’s else?
  • Is anybody denying me my destiny?

There are so many questions to ask yourself.

The answers are right there in front of you. It comes no matter what you do. It is like what Master Oogway said: One often meets his destiny on the path he takes to avoid it.

Just believe in yourself. Don’t fight or seek it in someone or something else.