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Problem Solver: How I Plan to Face Challenges From Now On

We all must make decisions.

Whether you’re an employee, a businessperson, or the CEO of the most powerful tech company in the world, you face problems every day that need solving.

Whether the issue is big or small, we all set goals for ourselves, face challenges, and strive to overcome them.

Fortunately, there’s a fundamental approach to solving these real-life problems, one that can consistently lead you to effective and satisfying solutions.

It may take a few days for a small problem, a couple of months for a life problem, or thousands of years for a cosmic problem, but there is never a problem that cannot be solved

– Dan Koe.

This means that rather than feeling as though your life is out of your control, you can take charge and shape the world around you.

Instead of being overwhelmed by the challenges you face every day, you can learn to enjoy them and overcome them.

This article is long because it serves as a comprehensive guide to problem-solving.

To fully digest this article, try this approach:

  • Read half of it now
  • Bookmark where you stopped
  • Set a phone reminder to finish it later

Now, let’s get started.

Why Most People Are Ineffective Problem Solvers

Several common attitudes can hinder effective problem-solving. And it is exhibited in these four characters. You might have met one or all of them when facing your challenges.

Person 1: Miss Give-Up

Miss Give-Up is the kind of person who gives up immediately whenever she faces even the smallest challenge.

She just sighs and says, “I’ll never be able to do that.” This does not mean that she couldn’t achieve things if he tried. Sometimes she has a great idea or notices a problem that can be fixed.

But Miss Give-Up is terrified of failing and having people laugh at her. Instead of speaking up or taking action, she sits around feeling sorry for herself.

Miss Give-Up can’t take control of her own life. She feels as though no one understands her, and she blames anything bad that happens on everybody else.

Repeatedly, she says the same kinds of things:

  • “I’ll never be able to do that. I’m just not that talented.”
  • “I’m not going to try. What if I fail? Everyone will make fun of me.”
  • “Nobody understands me. Nobody cares about me. Everybody is out to get me.”

Person 2: Mr. Fault Finder

Mr Fault Finder, on the other hand, is never afraid to speak up.

He is a professional critic. Whatever the plan, he is ready to point out the shortcomings and shoot down everyone else’s ideas. If someone tries something and fails, he’ll be the first to say, “I told you so.”

Mr Fault Finder is always eager to blame someone else whenever things go wrong.

He may have a lot to say about other people’s mistakes, but he never does much of anything himself.

Mr. Fault Finder says things like:

  • “Come on, I told you what you needed to do. Why can’t you get it done?”
  • “Well, that won’t work. What a stupid idea!”
  • “I told you that it would get screwed up. It’s all your fault.”

Person 3: Miss Big-Ideas

Mr. Fault Finder may be a big downer, but Miss Big-Ideas has her head stuck in the clouds.

She loves coming up with new ideas. But it rarely goes beyond that. She never bothers to figure out how to turn her ideas into real plans, and she doesn’t try to get anything done.

Miss Big-Ideas is satisfied just thinking about her great dreams. They’re always better in her head than they would be in reality, anyway.

Miss Big-Ideas has many audacious dreams – dreams that never seem to become realities:

  • “I want to write a novel!”
  • “Wouldn’t it be great if I started my own business?”
  • “I’m an ideas person. Don’t bother me with the tiny details!”

Person 4: Mr. Just-Do-It

Mr. Just-Do-It may not seem like a non-problem solver when you first meet him.

He’s not one to worry about problems or entertain negative thoughts. And when something goes wrong, he quickly jumps into action. His attitude is “I can’t change the past. But I can do something now.”

Mr. Just-Do-It’s tenacity and proactiveness are positive traits.

However, if he knew how to pause and think for a minute before rushing to execute, he would be able to achieve so much more. He also tends to blame every failure on a simple lack of effort and thinks any problem can be solved by trying harder.

When he makes up his mind about how to solve a problem, he refuses to change course. He’s not interested in seeking out the root cause of his problems or in considering alternative solutions. He just doesn’t realise that stopping to think can be just as important as taking action.

Mr. Just-Do-It can often be heard saying things like:

  • “I’ll never give up. I’ve got to overcome this challenge!”
  • “I know this will work if I just put in a little more effort.”
  • “Why stop to think? That’s just a waste of time. Everything is about execution!”

Are you one of these types?

Do you ever find yourself sighing and giving up?

Which do you think is easier? To criticise other people or try to do anything on your own?

Do you love to dream but hate to plan? Or do you attack problems head-on but fail to turn on the brakes when you aren’t getting anything done?

Most importantly, are you more like a problem solver?

The types of people when it comes to Solving Problems

Which one of these types do you want to be?

Essentials of The Problem Solver

The Problem solver has a real flair for setting goals and getting things accomplished.

By striking a balance between thinking and acting, they can accomplish amazing things. Problem solvers enjoy learning from their successes as well as from their failures.

The toolkit of a Problem solver includes identifying the root cause of a problem and setting specific goals. They have positive attitudes and stay focused on what can be changed rather than what has already happened.

The Problem solver comes up with specific action plans to fix their problems and then executes them right away. Once they act, they constantly monitor their own progress.

Problem-solving isn’t a talent that some people have and others don’t. It’s a habit. By developing the right skills and adopting the right attitude, anyone can become a problem-solver.

What is Problem Solving?

Problem solving is a process that can be broken down into four steps:

  1. Understand the current situation
  2. Identify the root cause of the problem
  3. Develop an effective action plan and
  4. Execute until the problem is solved, making modifications as necessary.

All you have to do is understand the situation, identify the root cause, develop an effective plan, and execute.

Even if the problem you face is big and complicated, if you learn how to break it down into smaller, manageable problems, you will be able to solve it.

Steps of Problem Solving

The Four Steps of an Effective Problem Solver

Once you learn the basic problem-solving approach, you can stop panicking and gain the confidence to solve any problems that you face in life, whether they are about work, business, or your personal life.

I will share some toolboxes that help you in each step of solving problems

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: LOGIC TREE

A logic tree is a great tool to use when you solve problems. It’s a visual tool that helps when you are trying to identify all the potential root causes of a problem and generate a wide variety of solutions.

The key to making a useful logic tree is to break down a problem into categories without leaving anything out. And to group similar items under the same branch.

For example, here is how to use the logic tree to solve a problem like selecting a career path to take after undergraduate studies.

Logic Tree

Logic Tree: A Toolbox of a Problem Solver

It may take you a while to get the knack for making logic trees, but once you master it, it will help you to think beyond the initial spark of an idea and lead you to come up with new and effective solutions to your problems.

How to Identify Root Causes of Problems

Life is full of challenges.

You face obstacles as you try to accomplish your goals and dreams. Even the problems that pop up in your daily life can be overwhelming.

But that doesn’t mean you should just give up! Instead, try stepping back and figuring out the root cause of the problems and how you can overcome them.

And here are the steps to do it.

Step 1: Diagnose the situation and identify the root cause of the problem.

  1. List all the potential root causes of the problem.
  2. Develop a hypothesis for the likely root cause.
  3. Determine the analyses and information required to test the hypothesis.
  4. Analyze and identify the root cause.

Step 2: Develop the solution.

  1. Develop a wide variety of solutions to solve the problem.
  2. Prioritize actions.
  3. Develop an implementation plan.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: YES/NO TREE

You can use a yes/no tree to help you figure out a problem’s root cause or decide how to solve a problem.

To create one, you answer multiple yes/no questions. Write down a question and then consider whether a yes or no answer will lead to an explanation (a bucket) or another question.

Repeat this process for each further question until you’ve created buckets for all the possible explanations.

For the problem of selecting a career path to take after undergraduate studies, here is the yes/no tree for one of its potential solutions.

Yes/No Tree

Yes/No Tree

1B. Develop a Hypothesis for the Likely Root Cause

A hypothesis is a hunch. It’s what you think is the most likely explanation for your problem, but you haven’t yet confirmed it.

By determining your hypothesis and thinking through the reasoning that underlies it, you will be able to check whether it’s right.

From there, you can move on to making a sound decision that will lead to a productive solution.

1c. Determine the Analyses and Information Required to test the Hypothesis

This is where the information collection and analysis part of the problem-solving process comes into play.

You’re not collecting information just for the sake of collecting it or analysing it just for fun. You’re doing it to help you make better decisions.

Try to collect and analyse information efficiently and effectively. This will help you make better use of your limited time and resources.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Problem-solving Design Plan

If you start collecting and analysing data without first clarifying the question you are trying to answer, you’re probably doing yourself more harm than good.

You’ll end up drowning in a flood of information and realise only later that most of that research was a waste of time.

To avoid this problem, you should develop a problem-solving design plan before you start chasing after information.

In the design plan, you clarify the issues you are trying to solve, state your current hypotheses and rationale, and list the analyses, actions, and information required to prove or disprove those hypotheses.

Developing this plan before you start researching will drastically increase your problem-solving productivity.

Here is an example of the design plan for the problem we have used as an example.

Design Plan

Design Plan: A Toolbox of a Problem Solver

Additionally, putting your plan down on paper will not only clarify your thoughts.

If you’re working in a group, this plan will also help your team focus on what needs to be done and provide the jumping-off point for your group brainstorming. You will be able to focus on only what you really need to know to decide.

When to Prioritize the Actions to take

Make the key criteria the potential impact of the action and its ease of implementation.

Rate the impact, from high to low, on the vertical axis. On the horizontal axis, plot the ease of implementation, from hard to easy.

The best solutions fall in the top right box, with high impact and easy implementation. The least effective solutions fall in the lower left box, with low impact and hard implementation.

Still on the problem of which career path to take immediately after school, here is what the matrix might look like when prioritising which actions to take.

Matrix

Then, You Develop an Implementation Plan

Your priority should be the actions in the top right box because their impact is high and the ease of implementation is easy. The next priorities are the actions in the top left or bottom right boxes. The least attractive are the ones in the bottom left box.

People have different strengths. You can accomplish more by collaborating with others who have strengths you may lack.

Your Goals and Achievements are Simply Problems that Need Solving

Problem solvers don’t just have big dreams; they go after their larger goals by breaking them down into smaller milestones.

They ask themselves, “What should I do this year, or in the next three months, or today?” These milestones guide problem solvers toward their dreams and help to keep them motivated.

Once they lay out a plan for achieving a dream, they then figure out the most effective way to achieve each smaller goal and to take the actions needed.

There’s a proven process for a problem solver for figuring out how to achieve such a goal.

  1. Set a clear goal.
  2. Determine the gap between the goal and the current situation.
  3. Form a hypothesis about how to close the gap and achieve the goal.
    1. List as many options and ideas as possible.
    2. Select the best ideas as the hypothesis.
  4. Check the hypothesis. Go back to step 3 if the hypothesis is disproved.
    1. Determine the analyses and information required to test the hypothesis.
    2. Analyze and develop an action plan.

Step 1: Set a Clear Goal

Bad examples of setting goals are “I want a laptop”; “buy a laptop.”

A good example is: “I want to buy a 700k used Dell laptop within six months without borrowing money from others.”

The first two examples are unclear. It doesn’t clearly state what you want, when you want it, or how you want to obtain it. In the third example, these details are clarified.

If you have specific conditions for achieving your goal, you should include them in the goal statement. The more specific the goal is, the more specific the action plan will be.

Whenever you set a goal, get into the habit of asking yourself,

  • What specifically do I want to achieve?
  • When do I want to achieve it?
  • What specific conditions do I have?

Step 2: Determine the Gap Between the Goal and Current Situation

Once you set a clear goal, you need to identify the gap between your goal and your current situation.

If the gap is small, the solution may be obvious. But if the gap is large, you may have to really think through how to achieve the goal.

Step 3: Form a Hypothesis

3A. List as many options and ideas to close the gap as possible

Take a moment to list a few ideas. Be as specific as possible.

What did you come up with? Were you able to think of a wide variety of ideas? Sometimes it’s hard to break out of your current way of thinking and come up with innovative ideas.

However, by using the logic tree, you will be able to come up with a wide variety of more specific ideas.

To make the tree grow vertically, repeatedly ask yourself, “Are there other ways of solving the problem?”

You can grow the tree horizontally by asking, “Specifically, how or what falls into this category?”

In this manner, you’ll end up developing a wide variety of specific ideas.

3B. Select the best ideas as your hypothesis

Once you create your logic tree, start to look for the best ideas so you can come up with a hypothesis for how you can close the identified gap.

You can cut a branch out of your logic tree if the idea is clearly not effective or feasible, or if it goes against your values.

When you set a clear hypothesis and rationale, you are more able to collect information and conduct analyses efficiently and discover if your hypothesis is true.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Hypothesis Pyramid

The hypothesis pyramid is a great tool for structuring your argument.

Using it to clarify your conclusion and rationale before diving into data collection and analysis will improve your productivity dramatically.

It’s also useful for communicating your hypothesis to others. The basic structure places the conclusion or main message at the top and lists the supporting rationales on the bottom, like the supporting bricks of a pyramid.

There are two main types of hypothesis pyramid: the grouping structure and the argument structure.

The Problem

The answers using a Hypothesis Pyramid

Step 4: Check the hypothesis

4A: Determine the analysis and information required to test the hypothesis.

Once you come up with a hypothesis for how your will achieve your goal, your next step is to figure out what analyses and information will be required to test your hypothesis.

4B: Analyze and develop an Action Plan

The Most Critical Step is Execution.

You have worked all the way through the process from the beginning of this guide. You set a clear goal, figured out the gap between your goal and your current situation, formed hypotheses on how you could close that gap, and checked your hypotheses to make sure they would work.

Now you have reached the most critical step: execution.

The impact of your actions is determined by the following equation:

Impact = plan effectiveness x quality of execution

To achieve the most impact, you need to have an effective plan and great execution. If you have one but not the other, you won’t be able to reach your goal. You need both.

Once you have a concrete plan of action to achieve your goal, don’t forget to create a concrete schedule. Write down everything you are going to do, and when you plan to do it.

Remember to monitor your progress and revise your plan as necessary. Very few things in life ever go as perfectly as planned.

How to Correctly Weigh the Pros and Cons of Your Decisions

The Problem solver is a great decision-maker.

They rarely regret their choices because they take the time beforehand to consider all their options and figure out the best decision for them personally.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Pros and Cons: Criteria and Evaluation

Two tools are very helpful when you need to evaluate multiple options and select the best one.

Tool 1: Pros and Cons

The first tool is called pros and cons. This tool helps you broaden your options and ensures that you consider both the good aspects (pros) and bad aspects (cons) before making a final decision.

Step 1: List All the Options

Step 2: List the Pros and Cons of Each of the Options

Next list all the pros and cons of each of the options. Even if you think a certain option is the most attractive, get into the habit of asking yourself, “Aren’t there negative aspects? Are there other positive aspects?”

We tend to be swayed by our first impressions.

If we first think something is attractive, we tend to try to collect evidence that supports that idea. On the other hand. if we think something is unattractive, we tend to highlight only its negative points.

It is critical to avoid this tendency to make a sound decision.

Step 3: Weight each of the positive and negative points you listed

Not all the arguments for or against each choice have the same importance. The next step is to assign a weight to each of the items.

Step 4: Select the Most Attractive Option

Tool 2: Criteria and Evaluation

The next tool is the criteria and evaluation. You can use this tool to clarify which criteria, or qualifications, you should use to evaluate your options and decide the importance of each set of criteria. and effectively evaluate your options.

  1. List All the Options
  2. List the Evaluation Criteria
  3. Decide the Degree of importance of each criterion

You can use three levels, like high, medium, and low, or you can use a 10-point scale.

Step 4: Evaluate Each Option Based on the Weighted Criteria

Step 5: Select the Most Attractive Option

Solving Problems Effectively Will Ultimately Change Your Life

Spend less time worrying about things and more time thinking about actions you can take to get closer to your goals, then actually take action. Be a problem solver.

Ask for advice. You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. Look for information to help you make the best decision in the given time.

Challenge your thinking processes and your conclusions.

Ask the following questions:

  • What are the pros and cons? Do I have the full list? Which option looks more attractive considering both the pros and the cons? Are the pros and cons really pros and cons? What actions could I take to enhance the pros and to minimize or eliminate the cons?
  • What are the specific criteria I should be using? Do I have the right ones? Am I weighing each criterion the right way?
  • Is my evaluation correct? What information am I basing my evaluation on? Is it accurate, up-to-date, and unbiased?
  • What actions could I take to improve the attractiveness of my options?

Problem-solving is easy when you know how to set a clear goal, figure out how to reach it, and follow through while reviewing your progress and making changes to your plan as necessary.

If you develop a habit of being a problem solver, you’ll be able to make the most of your talents and take control of your life.

You can solve not only your own problems, but the problems of your work, your business, and your community – and maybe even the world.

N.B: This article is largely inspired and takes a lot of its source material from the book, Problem Solving 101 by Ken Watanabe.

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Technical Superiority: Why Intuition Can’t be Found in Books

If you think reading more or taking additional courses will give you all the answers, this story will change your mind.

In 2020, Netflix dropped a brilliant mini-series called The Queen’s Gambit, centred around a quiet but formidable orphan named Beth Harmon who rises through the male-dominated world of competitive chess.

An encyclopaedic knowledge of chess fuels Beth’s rise, yet she repeatedly faces moments where raw intellect isn’t enough.

In those moments, she doesn’t play the game by convention. Beth plays it by instinct.

And as she climbs the ladder, beating seasoned grandmasters in smoke-filled rooms with nothing but her calm glare and lightning mind, you realize something:

Beth isn’t just memorizing chess patterns. She’s seeing them.

In The Queen’s Gambit, Beth Harmon’s chess mastery did not come from memorization alone, but from moments where she closes her eyes and feels the board.

But there’s a painful story before she fully mastered chess.

The Short Story of Beth Harmon

You see, Beth was orphaned at a young age, after which she was placed in an institution where she first discovered chess.

Later, she was adopted by Alma Wheatley, a kind woman who recognized Beth’s extraordinary talent and supported her chess career despite knowing little about the game herself.

As Beth plays more professional chess, she begins to rely heavily on study and technical preparation, developing an obsessive relationship with perfection and channelling it to her games.

While Beth rises to the top of the chess world and reaps the financial benefits of her success, her performance worsens because of her increased dependency on drugs and alcohol.

However, Alma had been watching Beth’s journey and understood that true mastery required more than just technical knowledge. Or reliance on substances and alcohol abuse.

Alma had also learned something that all the chess books and training couldn’t teach and tried to pass this wisdom to Beth throughout their time together and this fell to deaf ears.

You see, Beth disregarded Alma because she didn’t really know much about chess.

But as Beth grew older and faced increasingly difficult opponents, she began to understand what Alma had been trying to tell her.  A full mastery of chess will only come from the source of technical superiority.

I will come back to technical superiority in a bit.

Eventually, as Beth faced increasingly sophisticated opponents, she discovered there was something missing from all her preparation. In her final breakthrough moment, Beth recalls Alma’s words which makes her rethink everything she thought she knew about mastery.

Her adoptive mother Alma, watching her obsess over strategy books, once told her: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Pause and let that sink in.

When its meaning dawns on you, keep reading.

Now let’s talk about technical superiority.

Technical Superiority

In football, technical superiority is what happens when a player has mastered the basics to such an elite level that they can create space and time out of thin air.

Regardless of pressure, system, or opponent, these football players execute the fundamental techniques of the game with precision, control, and consistency.

Technical superiority means having better ball mastery, allowing for more creative, efficient, and confident play than opponents.

The best football players in the world have this trait.

It’s why Messi can weave through defenders not just with speed but with minimal touches.

Technical superiority is why Iniesta always had three passing options even in a 2-square-meter box and dictated the pace of their football games.

It’s how Cristiano Ronaldo had a consistent ability to strike from distance or volley with both feet.

Technical superiority is not just about skill.

It means doing the basics so well that they become weapons.

It’s about that rare combination of feel, timing, and instinct that can’t be drilled into you.

You either sense the opening, or you don’t.

Now apply this to your life.

Think of the moments you got stuck in analysis paralysis because you didn’t trust your instincts.

The relationship you stayed too long in because the logic made sense… but your heart felt trapped.

The job offer you took because the pay was good… but your chest tightened every morning you had to show up.

How many times have you ignored the quiet whisper inside you because you couldn’t explain it yet?

How many times have you delayed the right move because you couldn’t find it in a manual, a course, or a quote from a Harvard business review article?

Apply Technical Superiority to your Life

 

Don’t confuse knowledge with knowing

We’ve been raised to believe that mastery is only acquired through accumulation.

Read more books.

Watch more tutorials.

Take one more course.

But the truth is… There comes a point when more information blinds you.

Where you’ve read so much theory you can’t hear your own thoughts.

You’re academically sound, yes… but spiritually deaf.

What Alma, Beth’s adoptive mother said wasn’t just a warning.

It was an alarm.

A code-red for the overeducated, overinformed generation who confuse knowledge with knowing.

Intuition can’t be found in books.

You can’t Google it.

You must live it.

You must sit with yourself in silence.

Feel your own patterns.

Watch your own mind.

And eventually, you’ll start to see the board.

Not the one they taught you in class.

The one that only your eyes can see.

And when you do…

You’ll stop playing by memory.

You’ll start playing by mastery.

This life is not a textbook.

It’s a chessboard. It’s a football game.

And no two games are ever the same.

Stop trying to memorize every outcome.

Instead, trust that feeling.

That strange but familiar sense that something is either deeply right or unmistakably off.

Train and hone this feeling by practicing what you have learned and consistently execution

The algorithm can’t teach you that.

Only you can.

Play Life to hone and master your technical superiority

So please, whatever story you’re living through right now…

Don’t search for all the answers on someone else’s page.

This is your move.

And now, once and for all, let the books serve their purpose and trust what they cannot teach.

Remember Alma’s words: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Now go show the world how your game is played.

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Reinvention: How to Live Multiple Lives in 1 Lifetime

Reinvention is how you live multiple lives in one.

Let me explain how. April 12 was my birthday. The birthday came with beautiful prayers, wishes, and messages.

And it felt so good to be appreciated.

The birthday anniversary also reminded me of how fast life moves, with responsibilities and relationships growing stronger or weaker with time.

Time is Constant for Everybody, yet Different for Anybody

When you are in your 20s, you seem to have abundant time.

It’s the same 24 hours for everyone, but you have more energy to stay awake. And so many interests, passions and causes compete for your ‘seemingly infinite’ time.

Whether it’s launching a business or growing your business. Whether it’s finding a new job or maintaining your current job.

Starting an NGO. Or being part of an NGO. Watching a personal development video. Or re-watching a Netflix series.

The options are limitless.

Then suddenly, your time now seems to get shorter with every birthday celebration.

Reinvention: The True Concept of Time

Reinvention: The True Concept of Time

There used to be days when I woke up by 5 a.m., went to work, called friends, read voraciously, wrote over a thousand words, took an online course, slept by 1 a.m., and still felt energetic the next day.

Now, there are days when I struggle to read, return a missed call or finish a 90-minute movie as I try to relax.

Even though you want time to go at your pace, this is when patience comes into play.

The Patience Paradox

In this present age of cybercrimes and the increasing display of wealth, it is easy to sway from the right path.

Let me explain this with a few real-life scenarios:

Example 1: You just started your business. You sell cakes. Or probably clothes.

Your cakes are sweet and amazing. Your clothes are top-quality and fitted.

But the customer patronage is low. The sales are not coming as you expect.

Then you ask yourself, why do I have Few customers?

The keyword is PATIENCE.

Example 2: You wrote your first book. Or built your first app.

You spend a lot of energy and time on it. Excitement overwhelms you. You are hyped up.

You finally launch the book. Your app is live on the mobile app stores.

You get a lot of congratulations, but the users are few.

It’s nothing compared to the resources spent.

Then you ask yourself, why is my book not a bestseller? Why are people not talking about my app with their friends and family?

My friend, the keyword is PATIENCE.

Example 3: You organise an event.

You design flyers and publicise them on social media.

The venue is set.

You even bought light refreshments for your guests. You tell your friends, family and even enemies.

Most of them promise to come. You are already imagining a fully packed event.

Then the D-day comes. Only a handful of people attended.

And some of them only came because they heard there would be small chops.

Then you ask yourself, am I missing something here?

The keyword is PATIENCE.

In these situations, you have two options.

You can either wait for your friends to make money and then buy your products.

Or you can search for clients who are willing to pay for your services.

Both choices will still take time. It will still require PATIENCE.

Does this mean, you should stop trying? Of course not.

Patience is one of the most underrated virtues. It takes patience to stop making rash or stupid decisions when climbing the ladder of success.

It takes patience to analyse a situation and make the right decision.

Reinvention: The Patience Paradox

Reinvention: The Patience Paradox

You can always speed up the process through direct mentorship, deliberate practice and careful observation of the greats.

But you should not skip the process altogether.

Trust the process. Enjoy every moment you spend today in improving yourself and your craft.

Patience is the bridge between lifetimes, and this is when it leads to growth.

Growth – The Misinterpreted Compounder

When we were younger, growth was often defined as the irreversible increase in age and size.

But now that you are older, this concept changes, especially for life itself.

Growth is now the increase in character, competence and convictions.

The attitude you exhibit. The passion and dedication you infuse in your work and craft.

And the values and principles that govern your daily decisions.

As I read some messages on my birthday, I rediscovered that growth is not just counting the number of birthdays you have witnessed so far on Earth.

But it’s also in the quality of your relationships – people above, below and on your level.

Growth is reflected in your influence over people and in the values you try to teach and learn daily.

Reinvention: What Growth also Means

Reinvention: What Growth also Means

The destination may change. The career prospects may not be what you planned it to be.

But one thing is still sure,

God’s Grace. Dedication. Diligence. Perseverance. Execution. Creativity.

The principles that worked for successful people will still work for you and me too.

Growth is the soil where your multiple lives bloom.

The Rule of Reinvention

In my “past lives”, I have been a laptop seller, graphic designer, biology undergraduate and even a client experience officer.

Elon Musk worked on online maps, business directories, and financial services before he became CEO of Tesla. Dangote imported and distributed commodities before he started manufacturing. Jesus Christ was a carpenter, healer and teacher before he became the saviour.

Most people replay the same year 10 times and call it a decade.

They work, sleep, scroll, repeat. They do not evolve, only age. That’s not life.  That’s existing.

Living multiple lives in one lifetime requires intentional evolution, not just passive endurance.

Leonardo da Vinci didn’t just paint the Mona Lisa; he was an inventor, scientist, and architect. Each pursuit was a “life” he lived within one lifetime. Oprah shifted from news anchor to media mogul to philanthropist. Each phase was a distinct “life.”

The key to reinventing yourself is to learn skills and keep compounding them. Every new skill is a new life. So, try to learn and apply one life-changing skill per year.

Coding, storytelling, public speaking, negotiation, photography — each opens a new version of you.

My book, Fast Track, can help you learn skills and place you on the path of reinvention in a shorter time.

Embrace skill stacking. Don’t see learning as ending with formal education or your current job. Actively seek out and dedicate time (even just 30 minutes a day) to learning a skill completely unrelated to your main hustle.

Use Patience to build competence, let time allow it to mature, and watch how this new skill adds another “layer” or potential “life” to your existence.

Treat your Life as a Netflix Series

Think of your life not as a single career path or role, but as a Netflix series.

Just as how a Netflix series rarely stops at a single season, you should not limit yourself to one version. Develop all aspects of yourself.

Each reinvention of yourself is a new season.

Your season 1 can be “the Hustler”. Season 2 can be “the Learner”. Your season 3 can be “the Baller”

You don’t cancel the show after one season. You keep producing, rewriting, shocking the audience. The plot twist is your responsibility.

Living multiple lives means actively working and balancing these different storylines in your series over time.

Some seasons might be excellent while others are just okay, and you might add entirely new storylines throughout your lifetime. Time allows each episode to improve, Patience helps you get better seasons (life challenges), and Growth is the overall increase in your series’ value (your richness of experience and character).

Don’t let your years pass by and track only birthdays.

Create intentional ceremonies or markers when you’re entering a new “life” phase.

What about the day you started your first business? Or started a new job? Did you mark the day you moved to a new city with just faith and your laptop?

Create the Right Timeline

Create the Right Timeline

In the End, Reinvention is for Your Own Good

When you cultivate different aspects of yourself – different skills, different roles, different knowledge bases – you build incredible resilience.

If one area of your life faces a setback (like a job loss, a business downturn), you have other developed parts of yourself to lean on, draw strength from, or even pivot towards.

You’re not a “one-season wonder.” You’ve lived multiple lives and learned different ways of thinking and problem-solving.

This adaptability, nurtured by patience through various growth cycles over Time, makes you better equipped to handle the inevitable uncertainties life throws your way.

You bounce back faster and see opportunity where others see only crisis.

This is how you will live multiple times in a Single Lifetime.

Reinvent Yourself Often

Reinvent Yourself Often