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Total Concentration: How you do anything is how you do everything

What if there was a simple practice that could turn ordinary people into masters of their craft?

A method so powerful that warriors used it to defeat enemies far stronger than themselves?

I borrowed this concept from the popular anime Demon Slayer, and it holds a real-life secret that can change your career, your skills, and your future.

It’s called Total Concentration Breathing, and learning to live in a constant state of readiness might be the most important skill you ever develop.

Total Concentration Breathing is Key

Total Concentration Breathing is Key

You can use this “constant state of readiness” to master any skill, from coding to public speaking.

Let’s break it down.

The Danger of the “Soft” Mind

The biggest problem today is that we are losing our ability to focus.

Our world is full of distractions like phones, social media, and constant noise.  Because we can’t focus, we don’t master skills deeply.  We become “jacks of all trades” but masters of absolutely nothing.

This hurts your career and your bank account.

If you cannot focus, you stay stuck at the bottom.  The world rewards those who can stay sharp while everyone else is falling asleep at the wheel.

The truth is, most of us were never taught how to focus deeply or practice with discipline. And without discipline, your potential stays locked away.

You become a passenger in your own life instead of the driver. This is the “soft” mind trap.

That’s where Total Concentration Breathing comes in to overcome this trap.

What is Total Concentration Breathing?

In the hit anime Demon Slayer, special samurai fight demons and are called demon slayers

Demons are fast and deadly. One wrong move, and you die.  So the demon slayers develop a special breathing technique called Total Concentration Breathing.

It is a technique for inhaling large amounts of oxygen. This makes your blood pump faster and your muscles stronger. By breathing deeply and steadily, they sharpen their senses, increase their strength, and always stay alert.

But the real magic comes from a higher level called Constant Total Concentration.

This is when a warrior breathes this way 24 hours a day, even while they are sleeping. With this level, warriors can stay in that focused, ready state every moment of the day, not just during battle.

The Story of Tanjiro’s Breakthrough

A young demon slayer in the anime, Tanjiro, is told he must learn Constant Total Concentration to survive against powerful enemies.

When Tanjiro first tried this, he felt like his lungs would explode. He had to blow into giant, hard gourds until they shattered just from his breath.

Tanjiro failed over and over. But he didn’t stop. He practiced until the “special breath” became his normal breath.

Once it became automatic, his power exploded.

Tanjiro didn’t have to “get ready” for a fight because he was always ready.

This is the secret to greatness.

Why This Matters in Your Real Life

You might not be fighting demons physically, but you are fighting deadlines, competition, and your own laziness.

These are the “demons” of the modern world. Total Concentration in real life means sustained intensity. It means you don’t just work hard for ten minutes; you keep a high level of awareness all day.

Total Concentration Breathing teaches you to stay ready every single day.

Total Concentration Breeds Constant Readiness

Total Concentration Breeds Constant Readiness

When you practice this, you learn skills three times faster than others. While they are distracted, you are absorbing information like a sponge. Being in a constant state of readiness means you never have to “warm up.”

When an opportunity or a challenge hits, you are already at 100% power.

Step 1: Find Your “Breathing Style” (Identify the Core Skill)

In Demon Slayer, breathing enhances a specific fighting style.

In your life, it should enhance a specific skill. To start, you must pick one skill that will change your life.

This is your “breathing style.”

It should be something hard that requires deep focus to master. Don’t try to breathe for everything at once.

Focus your mental energy on this one specific goal until you can do it without thinking.

Step 2: The Deep Inhale (Active Learning)

Most people skim the surface.

To practice Total Concentration, you must dive deep. When you study or practice, remove every single distraction.

This is the “Deep Inhale.”

You are taking in as much information as possible.  Your brain should feel slightly tired, just like Tanjiro’s lungs felt tight.

Intensity is more important than time.

Thirty minutes of “Total Concentration” practice is better than five hours of distracted browsing.

Step 3: The Constant Hold (Mindfulness)

This is the hardest part.

You must try to keep your focus sharp even when you aren’t “working.” Every moment is a chance to learn something.

This is the “Constant” state of readiness.

Listen carefully when people talk. Notice patterns at work. Pay attention to how successful people in your field operate.

When you stay aware, your brain collects lessons that others walk right past.

If you are a writer, look at the world like a writer all day. If you are a coder, think about logic while you wash the dishes.

Never let your mind go completely soft.

Keep a small flame of discipline burning in the back of your head at all times.

Step 4: Expand Your Lungs (Progressive Overload)

Once the current level feels easy, you must make it harder.

Increase the difficulty of your tasks. Push yourself to produce more in less time.

Just as the gourds got bigger for Tanjiro, your challenges must get bigger for you.

If you don’t feel a little bit of “burn,” you aren’t growing.

Discipline is a muscle. The more you use it in this constant state, the stronger it gets.

Eventually, being “great” just feels like breathing.

Real-Life Masters of the “Constant State”

Many successful people use this exact philosophy, even if they don’t call it “Total Concentration Breathing.”

They live in a state of constant readiness.

1. Kobe Bryant

Kobe was famous for his “Mamba Mentality.”

He showed up at the gym at 4:00 AM every day. He didn’t just practice; he practiced with total intensity.

Kobe Bryant stayed in a “Constant” state.

Even during the off-season, his mind was always on basketball. He was always ready to win.

2. Elon Musk

Musk works 80 to 100 hours a week.

He treats his brain like a high-performance engine. Elon Musk doesn’t wait for inspiration.

Musk is always in “Total Concentration” mode when it comes to engineering.

He stays ready, stays focused, and stays intense until the rocket stays up or the car drives itself.

3. Serena Williams

Serena didn’t just play tennis; she lived it.

Her focus on the court was legendary. She maintained a high level of mental pressure on herself for decades.

This “Constant” readiness allowed Serena Williams to win even when she was down. Her “breath” was stronger than her opponents’ “breath.”

The Path to Your Highest Self

The reason Total Concentration is the key to your highest self is simple: How you do anything is how you do everything.

Total Concentration Breathing is more than a cool anime concept. It’s a way of life that builds the kind of person who succeeds no matter what.

If you are lazy with your ‘breathing’, you will be lazy with your work. If you are distracted in small moments, you will fail in big moments.

Daily practice and discipline turn a “technique” into a “character trait.” When excellence becomes your “Constant” state, success is guaranteed.

You stop wishing for things to happen and start making them happen. You become the master of your own spirit and a hero in your own story.

Total Concentration Breathing isn’t just for Tanjiro and his fellow Demon Slayers in a story.

It’s for you, right now, in the real battle of becoming who you were meant to be.

Turn on your Total Concentration today and never turn it off.

I sincerely hope this helps you, my friend.

Godspeed and Cheers.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on mastering money, mindset, and meaning.
  2. Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you.  This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
  3. Personal Wealth Maximiser: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximiser gives you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.

 

Renma: The Daily Grind That Changes Everything

You have the internet, free tutorials, and AI tools.

But there are still cases where you can still feel stuck.

Introducing the Concept of Renma

Introducing the Concept of Renma

In the modern world, most people collect information. But the highest achievers collect small, daily wins.

There’s a Japanese concept called Renma. It means constant polishing.

Renma is the secret to turning average skills into world-class weapons.

The Big Problem: You’re a Library, not a Weapon

Here’s the harsh truth.

The modern world is drowning in information.

You can watch a guitar lesson, a coding bootcamp, or a sales masterclass before lunch.

But information alone changes nothing.

Most people suffer from “skill hoarding.”

They save 50 blog posts, bookmark 100 videos, and buy three courses.

Then they feel busy.

But their actual ability? It stays the same.

Why? Because they never polish.

Without daily practice, your skills rust.

You become a walking library of things you could do, but never actually do.

This hurts your career. You get passed over for promotions. It hurts your confidence. You feel like a fraud.

The gap between “I know this” and “I can do this in my sleep” is the graveyard of good intentions.

And that gap is where Renma lives.

What Is Renma?

Renma comes from two Japanese characters: Ren (to train or practice) and Ma (to polish or grind).

Together, they mean constant polishing.

Not once a week. Not when you feel inspired. Every single day.

A famous Japanese swordsmith was asked, “How do you make the sharpest blade in the world?”

He smiled and pointed to a wet stone and a steel bar.

“I rub them together for three hours every morning. For twenty years. The stone polishes the steel. But the steel also polishes the stone. Both become sharper.”

That’s Renma.

The daily practice doesn’t just improve your skill. It improves you.

You become tougher, more focused, and more disciplined.

Why Renma Is Relevant to You Right Now

In the old days, you learned a trade and used it for 40 years.

Not anymore. Skills today expire faster than milk.

A coding language you learned two years ago might be outdated.

A marketing trick from last year is now common knowledge.

The only way to stay ahead is daily execution. Not monthly motivation.

Renma matters because the modern world rewards consistency over intensity.

A wild 10-hour practice session on Sunday won’t beat 20 minutes every single day.

Daily polishing rewires your brain. It builds muscle memory. It kills procrastination.

Also, Renma fights the “all or nothing” trap.

You don’t need two hours. You just need to show up.

Five minutes of guitar scales. Ten pushups. One sales call.

That tiny daily action keeps the blade sharp.

When you practice Renma, you stop waiting for the “perfect time.”

You realise the perfect time is today. For ten minutes.

The Daily Execution Metric (DEM) is Your New Best Friend

Renma needs a scoreboard. Otherwise, you’ll lie to yourself.

That’s where the Daily Execution Metric (DEM) comes in.

DEM is simple: One number. One action. Every day.

You pick one core skill you want to polish.

Then you measure your daily effort.

For example:

  • Want to write better? DEM = 200 words written today.
  • Want to get stronger? DEM = 20 pushups completed.
  • Want to improve your AI skills? DEM = 20 minutes of prompting

The magic of DEM lies in its ability to remove emotion.

You don’t ask, “Do I feel like practising?” You ask, “Did I hit my number?”

Yes or no. No drama.

Four Steps to Adopt Renma and DEM Today

Step 1: Pick ONE “Polishing Skill”

Don’t try to improve five things at once.

That’s confusion, not Renma.

Choose the one skill that, if improved, would change your life the most.

It could be public speaking, coding, sales, fitness, or even patience with your family. Write it down. One skill. One focus.

Step 2: Define Your DEM Number

Ask yourself: “What is the smallest daily action I can do that feels almost too easy?”

Start there.

If you want to run, don’t start with 5 miles. Start with 0.5 miles.

If you want to code, DEM = 10 minutes of practice.

Small is sustainable. Sustainable beats heroic.

Step 3: Create a Visual Tracker

Get a calendar, a notebook, or a simple note on your phone.

Every day you hit your DEM, mark a big “X” or checkmark. This is your “polishing chain.”

Your only goal is to not break the chain.

After three days, you’ll hate to miss.  After two weeks, it becomes weird not to practice.

Step 4: Attach Your DEM to an Existing Habit

Do not leave Renma to chance.

Attach it to something you already do every day.

  • “After I brush my teeth, I will do my 10 minutes of practice.”
  • “Before I eat lunch, I will write 200 words.”
  • “Right after my morning coffee, I will stretch for 5 minutes.”

This is called habit stacking. It makes forgetting almost impossible.

Four Steps to adopt Renma

Four Steps to adopt Renma

Five Famous Examples of Renma in Action

Let’s prove this works. These people didn’t rely on talent. They relied on daily polishing.

1. Kobe Bryant (NBA Legend)

Kobe had a nickname: “The Black Mamba.”

He started training at 4:00 AM every single day. While others slept, he was in the gym.

His DEM was 700 made shots before breakfast.

Kobe Bryant once said, “I have nothing in common with lazy people.”

2. Marie Curie (Nobel Prize Winner)

She didn’t discover radium on one lucky afternoon.

Marie Curie spent years manually processing tons of uranium ore in a cold, leaky shed.

Her DEM was simple: keep stirring, keep boiling, keep refining. Day after day.

That constant polishing of her experiment skills led to two Nobel Prizes.

3. Jerry Seinfeld (Famous Comedian)

This is the perfect DEM story.

Young Seinfeld wanted to be a great comedian.

He put a giant calendar on his wall. His rule: write one joke every single day.

After writing, he put a big red X on that day. His only job was to “not break the chain.”

Years of that daily polishing turned him into a legend.

4. Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (Nigerian Author)

Before she became a world-famous writer (author of Half of a Yellow Sun and Americanah), Chimamanda practised Renma without knowing the name.

While studying in the US, she wrote every single morning before class.

Her DEM was small but brutal: write for 30 minutes, no excuses.

Even when she felt uninspired. Even when she was tired.

That daily polishing turned her into one of the most respected voices in modern literature.

Why Renma Is the Shortcut to Your Highest Self

Here is the big reason Renma matters more than talent, luck, or intelligence.

Your highest self is not built in big moments. It is built on small, boring, daily choices.

The version of you who wakes up early to practice for 20 minutes will always beat the version of you who waits for inspiration.

The person who polishes a little every day becomes unrecognisable after one year.

Not because they did one amazing thing. But because they did 365 small things.

Renma removes the pressure to be perfect.

It replaces “I have to be great” with “I just have to show up today.”

And here is the beautiful secret: after 30 days of Renma, you won’t need discipline.

You’ll need relief. Practice becomes your peace.

Your blade becomes sharp. Confidence grows not from thinking about yourself, but from executing every single day.

Your First Step Starts Now

You don’t need a new app. And you don’t need permission.

  1. Grab a piece of paper.
  2. Write down ONE skill you want to polish.
  3. Write your DEM (small, daily, measurable).
  4. Decide when you will do it (example: “right after breakfast”).
  5. Do it today. Then tomorrow. Then the next day.

The world is full of people with big plans and zero daily execution.

Be the person with a small plan and unstoppable Renma.

Your blade is waiting.

Start polishing, my friend.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on mastering money, mindset, and meaning.
  2. Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you.  This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
  3. Personal Wealth Maximiser: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximiser gives you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.

Gambatte: Do Your Best

The modern world does not take away your potential.

It just makes distraction more available than discipline.

You cannot become your highest self without mastering daily practice.

And you cannot master daily practice without a mindset that pushes you through the hard days.

That mindset is Gambatte.

The good news is, there’s a way out.

What Is Gambatte?

Gambatte is a Japanese word that means do your best, give it your all, persist no matter what.

It’s one of the most commonly used words in Japan. People say it to each other before exams, before big games, before hard days at work.

But it’s more than just a phrase. It’s a mindset.

Gambatte teaches that effort itself has value. That showing up, doing the work, and refusing to quit is a form of honor.

You have not adopted Gambatte yet

You have not adopted Gambatte yet

It doesn’t matter if you’re perfect.

What matters is that you try fully, completely, and without holding back.

The Story of Sadako and the Thousand Cranes

In 1955, a young Japanese girl named Sadako Sasaki was diagnosed with leukaemia, caused by the atomic bomb that fell on Hiroshima.

While in hospital, she was told an old Japanese legend: if you fold one thousand origami cranes, your wish will be granted.

Sadako started folding.

She folded cranes from medicine wrappers, from any paper she could find.

Even as Sadako grew weaker, she kept going. She folded over 1,300 cranes before she passed away at the age of twelve.

Her story became a symbol of Gambatte. A spirit that never gives up, even in the hardest of circumstances.

That is the heart of this word.

Why Gambatte Matters to You Right Now

You may not be facing what Sadako faced. But you are facing your own battles.

Maybe you want to learn a new skill: coding, writing, music, business, or fitness.

Or maybe you’ve started before and stopped.

Maybe you’re afraid you’re not talented enough, not smart enough, or just too far behind.

Gambatte speaks directly to that fear and says: Keep going anyway.

In the modern world, most people quit too early.

They try something for two weeks, don’t see results, and give up.

But skills don’t work that way.

Skills are built through repetition, failure, correction, and more repetition. There are no shortcuts.

Gambatte is relevant because it removes the pressure of perfection and replaces it with the power of persistence.

It tells you that your daily effort, even when it feels small, is building something real. Something that compounds over time.

This is what separates people who grow from people who stay stuck.

4 Steps to Practice and Adopt Gambatte

“Do your best” sounds nice… but how do you actually live it?

Here’s what works.

Step 1: Choose One Skill and Commit to It

Stop trying to learn everything at once.

Pick one skill that matters to your goals.

Write it down. Tell someone about it. Make it real.

Gambatte requires direction. You can’t give your all to something you haven’t fully chosen yet.

Step 2: Show Up Every Day, Even When It’s Small

You don’t need three hours a day.

You need consistency.

Fifteen focused minutes of practice every single day beats three hours once a week.

The Japanese concept of Kaizen (small, continuous improvement) works hand in hand with Gambatte. I wrote a full article on Kaizen here.

Do a little. Do it daily. Never miss.

Step 3: Embrace the Hard Days

Gambatte was not built for easy days.

It was built for the days when you don’t feel like it, when you’re tired, when you feel like you’re not improving.

Those are the days that matter most. Push through. Show up anyway.

That’s where real growth lives.

Step 4: Track Your Effort, Not Just Results

Most people only track results.

Did I improve? Am I there yet?

But results take time. Instead, track your effort.

Did I show up today? Did I give my best?

Mark it. Celebrate it.

Over time, you’ll see both your effort and your results begin to rise together.

Choose Gambatte

Choose Gambatte

Famous People Who Lived the Spirit of Gambatte

1. Hideo Nomo

Hideo Nomo was a Japanese baseball pitcher who moved to America in 1995 when no one believed a Japanese player could succeed in Major League Baseball.

He was mocked, doubted, and told to go home.

Instead, he practiced relentlessly and became a two-time no-hitter and All-Star pitcher.

He opened the door for every Japanese player who came after him.

2. J.K. Rowling

Before Harry Potter became the most beloved book series on earth, J.K. Rowling was a single mother on welfare, writing in cafés while her daughter slept beside her.

The manuscript was rejected by twelve publishers. She kept submitting.

On the thirteenth try, the world changed. Gambatte.

3. Michael Jordan

Michael Jordan was cut from his high school basketball team.

Rather than accepting that verdict, he practiced harder than anyone around him.

Early mornings, late nights, year after year.

Michael Jordan became the greatest basketball player of all time. He once said, “I’ve failed over and over again in my life. And that is why I succeed.”

4. Cristiano Ronaldo

Ronaldo wasn’t the most naturally gifted, but he trained like it mattered.

Extra sessions. Strict discipline. Total focus.

He turned himself into one of the best players ever.

Not because he was lucky but because he stayed consistent.

Day after day. Year after year.

The Deepest Reason Gambatte Belongs in Your Daily Life

Here’s the truth that ties everything together.

You are not going to become your highest self in one big moment.

There is no single breakthrough, no magic event, no overnight transformation that will get you there.

You become your highest self in the daily decision to show up.

Every morning you practice your skill, you are casting a vote for the person you want to become.

Every time you push through a hard day, you are building not just a skill, but a character.

An identity. A version of yourself that is stronger, more capable, and more alive.

The biggest reason to adopt Gambatte is to avoid regret.

At the end of your life, you don’t want to ask, “What if I had tried harder?”

You want to look back and see a life full of effort, growth, and courage.

You want to know that you gave this world everything you had.

Gambatte is not just a productivity tool. It is a philosophy of becoming.

It says: ” You have something worth developing. Your effort is worth giving. Your best self is worth fighting for. Every single day.

In a world designed to distract you, choosing daily discipline is a radical act.

Choosing to grow, to learn, to persist. That is Gambatte.

And that is how you become who you were always meant to be.

Gambatte. Do your best. Give it your all. Every day.

I sincerely hope this helps you, my friend.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

  1. Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people to help you master money, mindset, and meaning.
  2. Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you.  This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
  3. Personal Wealth Maximiser: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximiser gives you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.