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June 28, 2025 / 0 Comments

Obsession: 5 Steps to Peak Performance

Obsession is your most powerful lever for achievement, when it’s wielded with intention.

After interviewing ultra-successful individuals for decades, Joe Rogan observed a single trait in all of them. Everyone who is good at something is obsessed with it. They think and talk about that thing all the time. Obsession is the only way you can be great at something.

In simple terms, fleeting enthusiasm rarely moves the needle.

The Problem:

Most people are comfortable, making casual efforts which bring out casual results.

In a world full of distractions, they will always find plausible reasons to scroll, snooze, or switch tasks. This means they stop when things get inconvenient, not when the job is done. Even if they “finish” things, these tasks don’t matter.

Plenty of people work hard but few of them leave a mark.

Marc Andreessen has a famous quote on how to tackle this problem.

“The world is a very malleable place. If you know what you want, and you go for it with maximum energy and drive and passion, the world will often reconfigure itself around you much more quickly and easily than you would think.”

The Solution is Obsession

Become obsessed with whatever you are working on.

You risk being mediocre in a world that rewards obsession. Here is what happens you don’t have obsession:

Your goals take longer to achieve or never materialize because you are not obsessed to make consistent efforts.
If you’re not deeply engaged, your work will lack excellence or innovation.
Habits like distraction or avoidance become ingrained in your life over time.

The key isn’t vague motivation but a clear, five-part framework you can put to work today:

Define a compelling mission that pulls you forward
Build routines and environments that lock in focus
Establish a deliberate learning system to sharpen your skills
Anticipate and overcome the pitfalls that derail most people and
Measure your progress to keep the momentum alive.

Follow these steps, and you’ll turn raw enthusiasm into a structured, sustainable obsession that drives real results.

I will explain these steps in detail below, but you must first understand why obsession is important.

Why Obsession Matters

Firstly, Obsession doesn’t mean burnout.

There’s a difference between a healthy obsession and its destructive counterpart. Healthy obsession can mean 90 – 120 minutes of laser focus with two 5-minute breaks. Meanwhile, destructive obsession states you constantly need to skip sleep and social life.

Obsession doesn’t mean you ignore your family, health, or rest.

It means you care deeply. And you show up consistently for what matters most. Obsession is having intense focus during work periods while maintaining boundaries and other life priorities.

There are so many famous people who adopted this form of obsession and stayed at the top of their fields.

CASE STUDY #1: Serena Williams (Obsession with Excellence)

Serena won 23 Grand Slam titles, the most by any tennis player in the Open Era.

From age 3, Serena engaged in training drills for hours. Even during pregnancy, she trained and returned to win Grand Slams. Yet she openly prioritized motherhood and rest, setting boundaries around her career.

Obsession made Serena unstoppable.

CASE STUDY #2: Steve Jobs (Obsession with Simplicity & Design)

Steve made Apple one of the most iconic companies in history and transformed consumer tech forever.

He cared about every detail. From fonts, colors, to packaging. Yet, Steve took long walks to think, set clear boundaries with staff, and valued zen simplicity.

With obsession, Steve Jobs created insanely great products.

CASE STUDY #3: Marie Curie (Obsession with Scientific Discovery)

Marie won two Nobel Prizes in Physics and Chemistry for her work on radioactivity.

She worked with extraordinary dedication in her laboratory, often for 12+ hours daily in dangerous conditions. Marie still balanced this phase with her family life, raised two daughters and maintained close relationships.

Obsession made Marie Curie successful in science and family.

CASE STUDY #4: Jesus Christ (Obsession with His Mission)

Jesus was laser-focused on His divine mission: to seek and save the lost.

He worked from dawn to dusk healing, preaching, and mentoring his disciples. Yet Jesus regularly withdrew for prayer, and maintained close friendships. He also took time for meals and rest with his inner circle.

With obsession, Jesus changed the course of human history and built the most enduring spiritual movement.

Now that you see how legendary figures harnessed obsession, let’s break down exactly how you can build the same momentum in your own life.

Five Steps to Obsession

To have obsession is to develop intense focus during your work periods while maintaining broader life priorities.

And once you become obsessed, you can reach the top of your field.

This leads to step one.

Step 1: A Compelling Mission

Obsession begins with Clarity.

Choose a goal that excites you deeply, emotionally charged and meaningful.

Jesus had the “Kingdom of God.” Musk has “multi-planetary civilization.”

Why obsess over something if it doesn’t truly matter?

Write down what you want and why it deeply matters.

An example can be: Having 100,000 Dollars in investments to achieve financial freedom and build stability.

Step 2: A Designed Routine

Obsession shows up in your calendar.

Block out specific, distraction-free time daily or weekly for deep work on your mission.

Serena Williams cut non-tennis activities during training seasons.

Also, build rituals. Make it as simple as possible.

Use the same time, same place and the same tools.

An example can be: Every Sunday evening, do a quick budget review to track income, expenses and progress towards your mission. Use 2 Hours every morning to develop your highest-leverage skill

Step 3: A Learning System

Obsession thrives on mastery.

Create a method for continuous skill development within your focused time.

Kobe Bryant watched hours of game footage. Chimamanda Adichie studied great writers.

This can be deliberate practice routines, regular feedback from mentors, tracking specific metrics. Or it can be studying the work of masters in your field.

Build a system that makes learning inevitable. Books, podcasts, mentorships, courses. Stack them around your goal.

Set a learning schedule. Don’t just work, get smarter.

An example can be: Listening to one podcast on personal finance during your commute and reading two chapters of a money book every week.

Step 4: A Daily Obsession Feed

What you feed grows. What you starve dies.

Read, listen, and think about your mission daily.

Jesus withdrew to pray daily. Steve Jobs walked to think clearly.

Surround yourself with content, people, and habits that reinforce your mission.

Your obsession must be visible. On your wall. In your phone. In your thoughts.

Create rituals that keep the fire burning, even when motivation fades.

An example can be: 10 minutes daily reading on making money and investing. Watch an inspiring video every morning to maintain an abundance mindset.

Step 5: A Feedback Loop

Obsession without direction becomes burnout.

Schedule regular periods (weekly and monthly) to step back and assess your progress on your mission

Marie Curie published findings early to stay driven. Jesus often did Q&A with His disciples to make sure they understood his teachings.

Ask yourself – What moved the needle in your mission? What didn’t?

Also track inputs, not just your outcomes (e.g. hours worked, pages written, user interviews).

Reflection is the compass that turns obsession into elevation.

An example can be: Reviewing your finances every Sunday night: How much you saved, what you spent on, and how it aligns with your freedom goal.

Staying Obsessed Leads to Your Highest Self

Obsession isn’t a flaw. It’s a fast track to your highest self.

When you’re obsessed, you gain clarity about who you are and what truly matters. It forces you to grow and raise your standards. Obsession demands depth and that depth reveals strengths, talents, and power you didn’t know you had.

So, stay obsessed, not for perfection, but for transformation.

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May 11, 2025

Time Wealth: How to Invest Your Finite Moments

When you use your time well, you say your time is well spent.

Time is an asset. It’s one of the currencies of life. Controlling your time is crucial for happiness and fulfilment.

Sahil goes further to call it Time wealth.

You can increase your Time Wealth by focusing on awareness, attention, and control. It’s no longer about focusing on money, i.e., financial wealth. You must also prioritise how you spend your limited time.

Time Wealth Quote

The Big Question: How Many Moments Do You Have Remaining?

Time is finite, especially when it concerns your relationships.

For instance, you have limited moments left with loved ones. Cherishing time spent with family, children, friends, and partners is important. We often take small moments for granted and only value them when they are gone.

Confront this reality and take action to invest your time in meaningful ways.

Choosing a partner to share life with is critical, as is finding meaningful work with energising coworkers. As people age, time spent alone increases, and it should be cherished rather than feared.

The Two Types of Time

There is a modern obsession with busyness, which is often equated with worth.

People are busier than ever but have less control over their time due to digital distractions and societal pressures. This perpetual busyness leads to scattered attention and a lack of fulfilment. To understand better, there are two ways to describe time.

There are Chronos and Kairos.

Chronos refers to sequential, quantitative time, while Kairos refers to qualitative time, where certain moments are more significant than others. Recognising and capitalising your kairos moments is crucial for achieving disproportionate growth and results.

The key is to identify moments of greatest time leverage and focus attention on them.

The Three Pillars of Time Wealth

There are three pillars for building Time Wealth:

Awareness: Understanding the finite nature of time as a precious asset.
Attention: The ability to focus on things that matter while ignoring distractions.
Control: The freedom to choose how to spend one’s time.

Awareness is Recognizing Time as Your Most Precious Asset

Awareness involves recognising the impermanence and value of time.

When young, you are a “time billionaire,” but this wealth diminishes with age.

Now, your goal is to value time before it becomes the only thing you value at the end of life.

Attention is Unlocking Results that are Bigger than your Efforts

Attention is the application of mental energy to create progress.

Focused attention is more powerful than scattered attention, leading to concentrated, extraordinary outcomes. Having focused attention involves dedicating yourself to high-leverage opportunities, projects, and people.

This requires careful selection and rejection of tasks.

Control is Your Ultimate Goal

Control allows you to choose what and when to do with your time.

With control, you own your time and make decisions about its allocation. Without control, your time is dictated by others. Combined with awareness and attention, you shift from being a “time taker” to a “time maker.”

Indeed, you can dictate your time and how it is spent.

The Time Wealth Guide: Systems for Success

There are twelve systems for building Time Wealth.

These systems address common anti-goals such as spending too much time on low-value activities, being too busy to prioritise loved ones and losing spontaneity in life.

The Time Wealth Hard Reset (Awareness)

This exercise involves calculating the number of remaining times one will see a loved one based on current frequency and age.

By confronting this numerical reality, you are inspired to create more time with those you care about.

The Energy Calendar (Awareness and Attention)

This system involves tracking daily activities and categorising them as energy-creating (green), neutral (yellow), or energy-draining (red).

Based on this, you can prioritise, delegate, or adjust activities to optimise your energy levels. Energy-creating activities should be amplified, neutral activities maintained or delegated, and energy-draining activities minimised or adjusted.

The goal is to improve your green-to-red ratio, enhancing overall energy and focus.

The Two-List Exercise (Awareness and Attention)

This exercise helps identify and focus on your top professional and personal priorities.

Create a comprehensive list of professional and personal priorities and narrow each list to three to five items. Separate the circled priorities from the rest, labelling them as “Priorities” and “Avoid at All Costs.”

This creates a clear distinction between what to focus on and what to delegate or delete.

4. The Eisenhower Matrix (Awareness and Attention)

This matrix categorises tasks based on urgency and importance:

Important and Urgent: Do now! These tasks require immediate attention and contribute to long-term goals.
Important and Not Urgent: Plan. Focus on these tasks to build long-term value.
Not Important and Urgent: Delegate. These tasks drain time and energy without contributing to long-term goals.
Not Important and Not Urgent: Delete. Eliminate these time-wasting activities.

The Eisenhower Matrix

The Index Card To-Do System (Attention)

This simple system involves preparing a 3×5 index card each night with a short list of 3-5 tasks for the next day.

The list should include important tasks that align with long-term goals. Its simplicity promotes focus and momentum. This allows you to accomplish more of what matters.

Parkinson’s Law (Attention)

Parkinson’s law states that work expands to fill the time allotted for its completion.

By establishing constraints and shorter time frames, you become more efficient and productive. You work like a lion. Short sprints of focused work followed by rest.

Repeat this pattern till task completion.

The Anti-Procrastination System (Attention)

This system involves three steps to overcome procrastination:

Deconstruction: Break down intimidating tasks into smaller, manageable steps.
Plan and Stake Creation: Develop a plan of attack with specific, time-bound micro-tasks. Create stakes, such as public declarations, social pressure, rewards, and penalties, to drive better outcomes.
Action: Start with the first action to create initial movement, using techniques such as planning a sync session, rewarding initial movement, or using the lion technique.

8. The Flow State Boot-Up Sequence (Attention)

This system focuses on creating a routine to enter a flow state, a state of deep, focused work.

Here, you build a personal boot-up sequence using the five senses:

Touch: Engage in a specific movement or body action.
Taste: Consume a specific drink, chewing gum, or snack.
Sight: Focus on a specific visual element in the environment.
Sound: Listen to a specific sound in the environment.
Smell: Inhale a specific scent in the environment.

The Flow State Boot-Up Sequence

Effective Delegation (Attention and Control)

This system emphasises the importance of delegating tasks to create time leverage.

The three core principles of effective delegation are:

Appropriate Task Profiling: Delegate low-risk, high-reversibility tasks that require minimal oversight, and high-risk, low-reversibility tasks that need significant oversight.
Clear Expectations: Establish clear expectations for every task, including deliverables, timelines, feedback loops, and risk profile.
Infinite Feedback Loops: Establish continuous, iterative feedback loops to enable participants to learn and improve.

Delegation can be implemented at three levels: direct, semiautonomous, and autonomous, allowing for increasing independence and efficiency.

10. The Art of No (Control)

Learning to say no is crucial for taking control of your time.

Two shortcuts to do this are:

The Right Now Test (Personal): When deciding whether to take on a personal commitment, ask, “Would I do this right now?” If the answer is no, decline the commitment.

The New Opportunity Test (Professional): For professional commitments, first, reference the two lists from the earlier exercise. If it’s not aligned with professional priorities, then say no. Then ask, “Is this a ‘Hell yeah!’ opportunity?” If not, decline the opportunity. If it’s aligned, then consider it will take twice as long and be half as rewarding as expected. If the opportunity is not worth it, then decline it. This streamlines commitments and helps individuals focus on what truly matters.

How to Manage Your Time: Time-Blocking and the Four Types of Professional Time

Allocate specific time windows for distinct tasks, managing life through a calendar rather than a to-do list.

The four types of professional time are:

Management: Meetings, calls, presentations, and email processing.
Creation: Writing, coding, building, and preparing.
Consumption: Reading, listening, and studying.
Ideation: Brainstorming, journaling, walking, and self-reflecting.

Starting on a Monday, at the end of each weekday, colour-code the events from that day according to this key:

Red: Management, Green: Creation, Blue: Consumption & Yellow: Ideation to understand which elements are dominating.

An optimal balance is:

Batching Management Time: Allocate discrete blocks for Management Time.
Increasing Creation Time: Carve out distinct windows for Creation Time.
Creating Space for Consumption and Ideation: Schedule dedicated blocks for reading, listening, learning, and thinking.

How to Fill Your Newly Created Time: The Energy Creators

The ultimate question after creating new time is how to fill it.

Choose activities, pursuits, and people that align with your goals and values. These additional energy creators give insights on pursuing what makes you happy.

Time Wealth: The Energy Creators

Use Your “Time Wealth” to shift perspective.

By cultivating awareness, attention, and control, you reclaim your time and invest it in meaningful relationships, fulfilling work, and personal growth.

The systems provided offer practical strategies for building your time Wealth and achieving a more balanced and purposeful life.

That’s all for now. You can read the other forms of wealth here: Beyond Money: A Guide to the 5 Types of Wealth

April 6, 2025

The Product Manager Mindset: Build a Better You Today

If you are not paying for it, you’re not the customer, you are the product being sold.

This phrase has been around for years and is often used for big tech companies like Facebook, Google, and, recently, OpenAI (ChatGPT).

In this context, the user is often the “product” served up to advertisers and their data. This is done to help companies manipulate users into making purchases from advertisers.

This principle applies to Life as well.

Breathing is free. Time is a gift. Waking up and Sleeping is free.

And since it’s all free, you are the product.

In business and entrepreneurship, a product fails without a product manager. Features are added without proper checks. User needs are ignored, and ultimately, the product fails to achieve its potential.

Similarly, without consciously managing your own “product” (your life and abilities), you can drift aimlessly, reacting to external demands rather than proactively shaping your growth and impact.

Don’t Drift Through Life on Autopilot

Many people drift through life without a clear roadmap or objective.

They wait for instructions. These people optimize for comfort. They never ask: What am I building here?

This mindset creates dependency, passivity, and missed potential.

That’s not you. You won’t be reading this if you simply want to drift through life. You prefer to proactively design your life rather than react to external forces.

When You See Yourself as a Product, You Start Improving

Your current strengths are the “features”. Personal weaknesses are your “bugs” to fix. Your life becomes the roadmap.

As the product manager, your ultimate objective is to ensure the overall product (you) is stable, efficient, delivers maximum value to its “users” (the world around you)

Yesterday I was clever, so I wanted to change the world. Today I am wise, so I am changing myself – Rumi

This mindset creates self-awareness and a system for continuous self-improvement, just like version upgrades in a product.

Embrace the Product Manager Mindset

When you embrace the product manager mindset, you become the architect of your life.

You prioritize your time, energy, and resources according to your own goals. This gives you a greater sense of control, purpose, and fulfilment. You are no longer a passive product but an active creator of your own experience.

You are constantly iterating, experimenting, and refining.

Become the best in the world at what you do. Keep redefining what you do until this is true. – Naval Ravikant

Here are the steps to become the Product Manager of your Life.

The 4 Rs of Becoming a Self-Product Manager

The Product Manager Mindset to Life

1. Review your “features” and “bugs”

Review your life as a product manager by thinking in features and bugs.

A feature is a product’s specific functionality, capability, or characteristic that delivers value to the user. It distinguishes a product from its competitors and enhances its overall appeal.

Bugs are errors, flaws, or defects which prevent a product from functioning as intended. Bugs need to be identified, tracked and resolved to ensure a smooth user experience.

List your current strengths (features), your weaknesses (bugs), and your goals (roadmap).

Define your personal “North Star.”

In product management, a “North Star Metric” (NSM) is a single, measurable metric that best captures the core value your product delivers to customers. A North star metric is measurable, actionable, clear and simple.

What are your core values and long-term goals? Write them down and review them regularly.

Then base your daily actions on these principles.

And don’t be afraid to fail or make mistakes. Use those experiences as data points to improve your next iteration. Iterations lead to mastery.

The goal is not to achieve perfection but to strive for continuous improvement.

2. Refine and Make Data-Driven Decisions

When building successful products, product managers don’t rely on feelings alone—they rely on metrics.

Do the same with your time, energy, and priorities. Track decisions and outcomes in your life by using a journal or note app. Review your trends every month.

Schedule regular “product review” sessions with yourself.

Reflect on your progress and identify areas for improvement. Then, adjust your “roadmap” accordingly. Be honest with yourself about what is working and what isn’t.

3. Release the Minimum Viable You (MVY)

No one can compete with you on being you. Most of life is a search for who and what needs you the most – Naval Ravikant.

Just as a tech startup launches an early version of its product with core features to test the market, identify your core strengths and focus on developing them first.

Instead of trying to be everything at once, concentrate on delivering value in a specific area.

As you gather “user feedback” (through your experiences and interactions), iterate and add new “features” (skills and knowledge) to your MVY, continuously improving and expanding your capabilities.

Launch the simplest version of a project or skill, then iterate based on real-world feedback.

When approaching a new endeavour, identify the smallest step that allows you to test your assumptions.

Want to write a book? Start with one article.

Seeking a career change? Do a single project in that field before full commitment.

You can check out my book – Fast Track which shows you how to build and achieve the complete roadmap in achieving this step.

What is the Lifetime Value of You?

In product management, there is a metric called “Lifetime value (LTV).”

Companies calculate this metric to make better product development decisions. The lifetime value prioritizes high-value customers and allocates resources more effectively. LTV represents the total revenue a customer is expected to generate over their entire relationship with a company.

Apply this concept to yourself.

What is the value you bring to the world and your relationships?

What value do you bring to your well-being throughout your life?

How can you increase that value through continuous learning, growth, and contribution?

Repeat and keep shipping updates

When building and managing products, there is a ritual known as “Daily Stand-up” done by the product team.

A daily stand-up is a short, focused meeting where the product team align on progress, goals and blockers. When done right, it always saves time and encourages accountability among the members. Daily stand-ups keep the team moving efficiently towards product goals.

Start your day like a daily stand-up meeting.

Ask yourself: What did I do yesterday? What am I doing today? What are my blockers?

Just like a product manager reviews progress and roadblocks, treat each morning like a product check-in.

Keep Shipping Updates

Why accept a version of yourself that stays the same?

Every week is a new version to keep learning, growing and doing.

Be real. Be yourself. Then become someone greater than your former self each day. – Victor Asemota

And when you are not yet your highest self with unfinished goals, tell yourself this:

You’re not stuck. You’re just a version behind.

Become the Product Manager of Your Life

In a world where free services often make you the product, take control by applying product management principles to your own life.

Treat yourself as a product. Your strengths are its features, your weaknesses are bugs to fix, and your growth is an ongoing iteration.

By embracing the 4 Rs of Self-Product Management (Review, Refine, Release (MVY), and Repeat) you shift from passive drifting to intentional living.

Define your North Star Metric (core purpose), make data-driven decisions, launch the Minimum Viable You (MVY), and continuously ship updates through daily self-reflection.

Just as great products need strong product managers, your life needs you at the helm. Stop being the product others shape—become the architect of your growth, value, and impact.

You are the product. Don’t let anyone mismanage you.