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Good Judgment: Mastering The True Value of Clear Thinking

Good judgment is your ability to make effective decisions by weighing information, considering consequences, and choosing wisely in uncertain or complex situations.

Effective decision-making comes down to two things:

  1. Knowing how to get what you want
  2. Knowing what’s worth wanting

The first point is about making sound decisions. The second is about making good ones.  You might think they’re the same, but they are not.

In life, you experience regret over both things you’ve done and things you’ve failed to do.

But the worst regret is when you fail to live a life true to ourselves. It’s when you fail to play by your own scoreboard.

Each autopilot plays a role in setting us up for regret.

  1. The social autopilot prompts you to inherit goals from other people, even if their life circumstances are very different from yours.
  2. The comfort autopilot encourages you to continue pursuing the goals you’ve pursued in the past, even after you’ve come to realize that achieving them doesn’t make you happy.
  3. The emotional autopilot sends you this way and that, chasing whatever captures your fancy in the moment, even at the expense of pursuing long-term goals that matter more.
  4. And the ego autopilot convinces you to pursue things like wealth, status, and power, even at the expense of happiness and well-being—your own and that of the people around you.
The Four Enemies of Clear Thinking

The Four Enemies of Clear Thinking

If you give any of the autopilots command of your life, your ultimate destination is regret.

Don’t live life by another person’s scoreboard. Don’t let someone else choose your objectives in life. Take responsibility for where you are and where you are headed.

Good judgment doesn’t come from chasing success but from building character.

Choose Your Scoreboard for Life

A life lived according to someone else’s scoreboard is not a life worth living.

The quality of what you pursue determines the quality of your life.  You think things like money, status, and power will make you happy forever, but they won’t. The moment you get them, we’re not satisfied. You will want more.

This phenomenon is called “the hedonic treadmill”, and everyone has taken a run on it.

Social comparison happens all the time. Sometimes it’s about possessions like houses or cars, but more often it’s about status. You tell yourself that the next level is enough, but it never is.

The next zero in your bank account won’t satisfy you any more than you are satisfied now. The next promotion won’t change who you are. The fancy car won’t make you happier.

The bigger house doesn’t solve your problems. More social media followers won’t make you a better person.

Don’t be part of the “Happy-when” People

Running on the hedonic treadmill only turns you into what we call “happy-when” people.

This set of people thinks they’ll be happy when something happens. The way things are now is the way they expect them to be, and they start taking the good things around us for granted.

Once you join this group, nothing will make you happy.

Good Judgment comes from rejecting the Happy-When Philosophy

Good Judgment comes from rejecting the Happy-When Philosophy

Making effective decisions and escaping the hedonic treadmill requires all the things we’ve talked about these few weeks:

  • The ability to keep the autopilots in check (read full article here)
  • Create space for reason and reflection (read full article here)
  • Using the principles and safeguards that make effective decisions. (read full article here)

But applying good judgment requires more.

It’s more than knowing how to get what you want. It’s also knowing which things are worth wanting and which things really matter.

Good judgment is as much about saying no as saying yes.

You can’t simply copy the life decisions of others and expect better results. If you want to live the best life you can, you need a different approach.

Knowing what to want is the most important thing.

Deep down, you already know what to do, you just need to follow your own advice. Sometimes, it’s the advice we give other people that we most need to follow ourselves.

Key Lessons from a Study that Connects Happiness with Good Judgment

There is a famous study by Gerontologist Karl Pillemer.

Gerontologists scientifically study age, the process of ageing and the specific problems of old people.

Karl Pillemer had seen numerous studies showing that people in their seventies, eighties, and beyond were happier than younger people.

He eventually authored his Book – 30 Lessons for Living: Tried and True Advice from the Wisest Americans and here are the most important lessons:

Lesson number one: Life is short!

When elders tell younger people that life is short, they’re not being pessimistic.

Instead, they’re trying to offer you a perspective that they hope will inspire better decisions. The older generation wants you to make choices that prioritise the things that really matter.

Time is the ultimate currency of life.

The implications of managing the short time you have on earth are like those of managing any scarce resource. You must use it wisely.

Manage time in a way that prioritises what’s most important.

Other Important Lessons from the Study by Pillemer

  • Say things now to people you care about; whether it’s expressing gratitude, asking forgiveness, or getting information.
  • Spend the maximum amount of time with your children.
  • Savour daily pleasures instead of waiting for “big-ticket items” to make you happy.
  • Work in a job you love.
  • Choose your mate carefully; don’t just rush in.

The list of things they said weren’t important was equally revealing:

  • None of them said that to be happy you should work as hard as you can to get money.
  • No one said it it mattered to be as rich as your neighbours or peers.
  • No one from the older generation said you should choose your career based on its earning potential.
  • None said they wished they had gotten revenge on someone who hurt them.

And the biggest regret people had?

Worrying about things that never happened.

If there were a way of viewing things from the perspective of our elders, we might have the insight to live better lives. We can see in the way the experts do what really matters and what doesn’t.

In fact, there’s an ancient technique for doing precisely this: start thinking about the shortness of life, and it will help you see what really matters.

The Memento Mori Technique

Shifting your perspective to the end of life can help you gain insight into what really matters.

It can help you become wiser. Memento mori is a Latin phrase meaning “remember you must die.” This phrase serves as a poignant reminder of mortality and the brevity of life.

When you imagine looking back on your life from the end, the worries and wants that seem so important right now fade away. What matters instead are the things that have real, lasting meaning.

Good Judgment comes from not wasting your life

Good Judgment comes from not wasting your life

This shift in your perspective allows you to turn your future hindsight into your current foresight. It gives you a map you can use to navigate into the future.

For many of us, looking at life this way reveals that our current direction isn’t fully aligned with where we want to end up. Seeing that is a good thing!

For instance, Jobs had a daily ritual. Every morning, he would look in the mirror and ask himself, “If today were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?”

Knowing you’re heading in the wrong direction is the first step toward getting back on course.

When you get clear on what really matters, you can start asking yourself, “Am I making the right use of my limited time?”

How to Unlock Life Lessons from Death

Evaluating your life through the lens of your death is raw, powerful and perhaps a bit scary.

What matters most becomes clear.

You become aware of the gap between who you are and who you want to be. You see where you are and where you want to go.  Without that clarity, you lack wisdom and waste the present on things that don’t matter.

When you know the destination, how to get there becomes clearer.

When you imagine your older self and what you want your life to look like in hindsight, you stop thinking about the small things that encourage you to be reactive instead of proactive.

You start to see what matters to you. The small things look small, and the things that really matter start to look big.

From this perspective, it’s easier to navigate toward the future you really want. You can see the gap between where you are and where you want to be and change course if necessary.

What seems like winning in the moment is often just a shallow victory.

It seems important at the time, but unimportant when you view it from the perspective of life.

When you’re not going in the direction in which you want to end up, you end up regretting where you end up. And avoiding regret is a key component to life satisfaction.

The True Value of Clear Thinking

Making sound decisions is time-consuming and expensive but making poor decisions will cost you a fortune.

The overarching message of reviewing Clear Thinking by Shane Parrish is that there are invisible instincts that conspire against good judgment.

Your autopilots encourage you to react without reasoning; to live unconsciously rather than deliberately.

When you revert to autopilots, you engage in a game you can’t win.

When you live a life run on autopilot, you get bad results. You make things worse. Sometimes, you say things that can’t be unsaid and do things that can’t be undone.

You might accomplish your immediate goal, but you fail to realise that you’ve made it harder to achieve your ultimate goals.

All of this happens without being consciously aware that you are making these decisions in the first place.

The key to getting what you want out of life

Identify how the world works and align yourself with it.

Often people think the world should work differently than it does, and when they don’t get the outcomes they want, they try to wiggle out of responsibility by blaming other people or their circumstances.

Avoiding responsibility is a recipe for misery, and the opposite of what it takes to make good judgment.

Improving your decision-making processes is less about accumulating tools to enhance your rationality and more about implementing safeguards that make the desired path the path of least resistance.

Making good judgment about designing systems when you’re at your best that work for you when you’re at your worst. Those systems don’t eliminate the autopilots, but they do help you recognize when they are running the show.

Managing your autopilots requires more than willpower.

Autopilots operate at our subconscious level, so overriding them requires harnessing equally powerful forces that pull your subconscious in the right direction: habits, rules, and environment.

Overriding your autopilots requires implementing safeguards that render the invisible visible and that prevent you from acting too soon.

And it requires cultivating habits of mind (accountability, knowledge, discipline, and confidence) that put you on the right track and keep you there.

The small improvements you make in your decision-making processes won’t be felt until they are too large to ignore.

Gradually, as the improvements accumulate, you will notice that less of your time is spent fixing problems that shouldn’t exist in the first place.

You’ll notice the various parts of your life blending harmoniously together, and you’ll notice that you experience less stress and anxiety and more joy.

Good judgment can’t be taught, but it can be learned.

This is the true value of clear thinking.

P.S.: This was the final part for my summary on the Book – Clear Thinking: Turning Ordinary Moments into Extraordinary Moments by Shane Parrish.

Incase you missed the previous parts, here are the links:

  1. Clear Thinking: How and Why Do People Make Bad Decisions?
  2. High Standards: Building Strength for Clear Thinking
  3. Safeguards: Turning Your Weaknesses and Mistakes into Strengths
  4. Better Decisions: The Hidden Framework Behind Clear Thinkers

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Problem Solver: How I Plan to Face Challenges From Now On

We all must make decisions.

Whether you’re an employee, a businessperson, or the CEO of the most powerful tech company in the world, you face problems every day that need solving.

Whether the issue is big or small, we all set goals for ourselves, face challenges, and strive to overcome them.

Fortunately, there’s a fundamental approach to solving these real-life problems, one that can consistently lead you to effective and satisfying solutions.

It may take a few days for a small problem, a couple of months for a life problem, or thousands of years for a cosmic problem, but there is never a problem that cannot be solved

– Dan Koe.

This means that rather than feeling as though your life is out of your control, you can take charge and shape the world around you.

Instead of being overwhelmed by the challenges you face every day, you can learn to enjoy them and overcome them.

This article is long because it serves as a comprehensive guide to problem-solving.

To fully digest this article, try this approach:

  • Read half of it now
  • Bookmark where you stopped
  • Set a phone reminder to finish it later

Now, let’s get started.

Why Most People Are Ineffective Problem Solvers

Several common attitudes can hinder effective problem-solving. And it is exhibited in these four characters. You might have met one or all of them when facing your challenges.

Person 1: Miss Give-Up

Miss Give-Up is the kind of person who gives up immediately whenever she faces even the smallest challenge.

She just sighs and says, “I’ll never be able to do that.” This does not mean that she couldn’t achieve things if he tried. Sometimes she has a great idea or notices a problem that can be fixed.

But Miss Give-Up is terrified of failing and having people laugh at her. Instead of speaking up or taking action, she sits around feeling sorry for herself.

Miss Give-Up can’t take control of her own life. She feels as though no one understands her, and she blames anything bad that happens on everybody else.

Repeatedly, she says the same kinds of things:

  • “I’ll never be able to do that. I’m just not that talented.”
  • “I’m not going to try. What if I fail? Everyone will make fun of me.”
  • “Nobody understands me. Nobody cares about me. Everybody is out to get me.”

Person 2: Mr. Fault Finder

Mr Fault Finder, on the other hand, is never afraid to speak up.

He is a professional critic. Whatever the plan, he is ready to point out the shortcomings and shoot down everyone else’s ideas. If someone tries something and fails, he’ll be the first to say, “I told you so.”

Mr Fault Finder is always eager to blame someone else whenever things go wrong.

He may have a lot to say about other people’s mistakes, but he never does much of anything himself.

Mr. Fault Finder says things like:

  • “Come on, I told you what you needed to do. Why can’t you get it done?”
  • “Well, that won’t work. What a stupid idea!”
  • “I told you that it would get screwed up. It’s all your fault.”

Person 3: Miss Big-Ideas

Mr. Fault Finder may be a big downer, but Miss Big-Ideas has her head stuck in the clouds.

She loves coming up with new ideas. But it rarely goes beyond that. She never bothers to figure out how to turn her ideas into real plans, and she doesn’t try to get anything done.

Miss Big-Ideas is satisfied just thinking about her great dreams. They’re always better in her head than they would be in reality, anyway.

Miss Big-Ideas has many audacious dreams – dreams that never seem to become realities:

  • “I want to write a novel!”
  • “Wouldn’t it be great if I started my own business?”
  • “I’m an ideas person. Don’t bother me with the tiny details!”

Person 4: Mr. Just-Do-It

Mr. Just-Do-It may not seem like a non-problem solver when you first meet him.

He’s not one to worry about problems or entertain negative thoughts. And when something goes wrong, he quickly jumps into action. His attitude is “I can’t change the past. But I can do something now.”

Mr. Just-Do-It’s tenacity and proactiveness are positive traits.

However, if he knew how to pause and think for a minute before rushing to execute, he would be able to achieve so much more. He also tends to blame every failure on a simple lack of effort and thinks any problem can be solved by trying harder.

When he makes up his mind about how to solve a problem, he refuses to change course. He’s not interested in seeking out the root cause of his problems or in considering alternative solutions. He just doesn’t realise that stopping to think can be just as important as taking action.

Mr. Just-Do-It can often be heard saying things like:

  • “I’ll never give up. I’ve got to overcome this challenge!”
  • “I know this will work if I just put in a little more effort.”
  • “Why stop to think? That’s just a waste of time. Everything is about execution!”

Are you one of these types?

Do you ever find yourself sighing and giving up?

Which do you think is easier? To criticise other people or try to do anything on your own?

Do you love to dream but hate to plan? Or do you attack problems head-on but fail to turn on the brakes when you aren’t getting anything done?

Most importantly, are you more like a problem solver?

The types of people when it comes to Solving Problems

Which one of these types do you want to be?

Essentials of The Problem Solver

The Problem solver has a real flair for setting goals and getting things accomplished.

By striking a balance between thinking and acting, they can accomplish amazing things. Problem solvers enjoy learning from their successes as well as from their failures.

The toolkit of a Problem solver includes identifying the root cause of a problem and setting specific goals. They have positive attitudes and stay focused on what can be changed rather than what has already happened.

The Problem solver comes up with specific action plans to fix their problems and then executes them right away. Once they act, they constantly monitor their own progress.

Problem-solving isn’t a talent that some people have and others don’t. It’s a habit. By developing the right skills and adopting the right attitude, anyone can become a problem-solver.

What is Problem Solving?

Problem solving is a process that can be broken down into four steps:

  1. Understand the current situation
  2. Identify the root cause of the problem
  3. Develop an effective action plan and
  4. Execute until the problem is solved, making modifications as necessary.

All you have to do is understand the situation, identify the root cause, develop an effective plan, and execute.

Even if the problem you face is big and complicated, if you learn how to break it down into smaller, manageable problems, you will be able to solve it.

Steps of Problem Solving

The Four Steps of an Effective Problem Solver

Once you learn the basic problem-solving approach, you can stop panicking and gain the confidence to solve any problems that you face in life, whether they are about work, business, or your personal life.

I will share some toolboxes that help you in each step of solving problems

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: LOGIC TREE

A logic tree is a great tool to use when you solve problems. It’s a visual tool that helps when you are trying to identify all the potential root causes of a problem and generate a wide variety of solutions.

The key to making a useful logic tree is to break down a problem into categories without leaving anything out. And to group similar items under the same branch.

For example, here is how to use the logic tree to solve a problem like selecting a career path to take after undergraduate studies.

Logic Tree

Logic Tree: A Toolbox of a Problem Solver

It may take you a while to get the knack for making logic trees, but once you master it, it will help you to think beyond the initial spark of an idea and lead you to come up with new and effective solutions to your problems.

How to Identify Root Causes of Problems

Life is full of challenges.

You face obstacles as you try to accomplish your goals and dreams. Even the problems that pop up in your daily life can be overwhelming.

But that doesn’t mean you should just give up! Instead, try stepping back and figuring out the root cause of the problems and how you can overcome them.

And here are the steps to do it.

Step 1: Diagnose the situation and identify the root cause of the problem.

  1. List all the potential root causes of the problem.
  2. Develop a hypothesis for the likely root cause.
  3. Determine the analyses and information required to test the hypothesis.
  4. Analyze and identify the root cause.

Step 2: Develop the solution.

  1. Develop a wide variety of solutions to solve the problem.
  2. Prioritize actions.
  3. Develop an implementation plan.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: YES/NO TREE

You can use a yes/no tree to help you figure out a problem’s root cause or decide how to solve a problem.

To create one, you answer multiple yes/no questions. Write down a question and then consider whether a yes or no answer will lead to an explanation (a bucket) or another question.

Repeat this process for each further question until you’ve created buckets for all the possible explanations.

For the problem of selecting a career path to take after undergraduate studies, here is the yes/no tree for one of its potential solutions.

Yes/No Tree

Yes/No Tree

1B. Develop a Hypothesis for the Likely Root Cause

A hypothesis is a hunch. It’s what you think is the most likely explanation for your problem, but you haven’t yet confirmed it.

By determining your hypothesis and thinking through the reasoning that underlies it, you will be able to check whether it’s right.

From there, you can move on to making a sound decision that will lead to a productive solution.

1c. Determine the Analyses and Information Required to test the Hypothesis

This is where the information collection and analysis part of the problem-solving process comes into play.

You’re not collecting information just for the sake of collecting it or analysing it just for fun. You’re doing it to help you make better decisions.

Try to collect and analyse information efficiently and effectively. This will help you make better use of your limited time and resources.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Problem-solving Design Plan

If you start collecting and analysing data without first clarifying the question you are trying to answer, you’re probably doing yourself more harm than good.

You’ll end up drowning in a flood of information and realise only later that most of that research was a waste of time.

To avoid this problem, you should develop a problem-solving design plan before you start chasing after information.

In the design plan, you clarify the issues you are trying to solve, state your current hypotheses and rationale, and list the analyses, actions, and information required to prove or disprove those hypotheses.

Developing this plan before you start researching will drastically increase your problem-solving productivity.

Here is an example of the design plan for the problem we have used as an example.

Design Plan

Design Plan: A Toolbox of a Problem Solver

Additionally, putting your plan down on paper will not only clarify your thoughts.

If you’re working in a group, this plan will also help your team focus on what needs to be done and provide the jumping-off point for your group brainstorming. You will be able to focus on only what you really need to know to decide.

When to Prioritize the Actions to take

Make the key criteria the potential impact of the action and its ease of implementation.

Rate the impact, from high to low, on the vertical axis. On the horizontal axis, plot the ease of implementation, from hard to easy.

The best solutions fall in the top right box, with high impact and easy implementation. The least effective solutions fall in the lower left box, with low impact and hard implementation.

Still on the problem of which career path to take immediately after school, here is what the matrix might look like when prioritising which actions to take.

Matrix

Then, You Develop an Implementation Plan

Your priority should be the actions in the top right box because their impact is high and the ease of implementation is easy. The next priorities are the actions in the top left or bottom right boxes. The least attractive are the ones in the bottom left box.

People have different strengths. You can accomplish more by collaborating with others who have strengths you may lack.

Your Goals and Achievements are Simply Problems that Need Solving

Problem solvers don’t just have big dreams; they go after their larger goals by breaking them down into smaller milestones.

They ask themselves, “What should I do this year, or in the next three months, or today?” These milestones guide problem solvers toward their dreams and help to keep them motivated.

Once they lay out a plan for achieving a dream, they then figure out the most effective way to achieve each smaller goal and to take the actions needed.

There’s a proven process for a problem solver for figuring out how to achieve such a goal.

  1. Set a clear goal.
  2. Determine the gap between the goal and the current situation.
  3. Form a hypothesis about how to close the gap and achieve the goal.
    1. List as many options and ideas as possible.
    2. Select the best ideas as the hypothesis.
  4. Check the hypothesis. Go back to step 3 if the hypothesis is disproved.
    1. Determine the analyses and information required to test the hypothesis.
    2. Analyze and develop an action plan.

Step 1: Set a Clear Goal

Bad examples of setting goals are “I want a laptop”; “buy a laptop.”

A good example is: “I want to buy a 700k used Dell laptop within six months without borrowing money from others.”

The first two examples are unclear. It doesn’t clearly state what you want, when you want it, or how you want to obtain it. In the third example, these details are clarified.

If you have specific conditions for achieving your goal, you should include them in the goal statement. The more specific the goal is, the more specific the action plan will be.

Whenever you set a goal, get into the habit of asking yourself,

  • What specifically do I want to achieve?
  • When do I want to achieve it?
  • What specific conditions do I have?

Step 2: Determine the Gap Between the Goal and Current Situation

Once you set a clear goal, you need to identify the gap between your goal and your current situation.

If the gap is small, the solution may be obvious. But if the gap is large, you may have to really think through how to achieve the goal.

Step 3: Form a Hypothesis

3A. List as many options and ideas to close the gap as possible

Take a moment to list a few ideas. Be as specific as possible.

What did you come up with? Were you able to think of a wide variety of ideas? Sometimes it’s hard to break out of your current way of thinking and come up with innovative ideas.

However, by using the logic tree, you will be able to come up with a wide variety of more specific ideas.

To make the tree grow vertically, repeatedly ask yourself, “Are there other ways of solving the problem?”

You can grow the tree horizontally by asking, “Specifically, how or what falls into this category?”

In this manner, you’ll end up developing a wide variety of specific ideas.

3B. Select the best ideas as your hypothesis

Once you create your logic tree, start to look for the best ideas so you can come up with a hypothesis for how you can close the identified gap.

You can cut a branch out of your logic tree if the idea is clearly not effective or feasible, or if it goes against your values.

When you set a clear hypothesis and rationale, you are more able to collect information and conduct analyses efficiently and discover if your hypothesis is true.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Hypothesis Pyramid

The hypothesis pyramid is a great tool for structuring your argument.

Using it to clarify your conclusion and rationale before diving into data collection and analysis will improve your productivity dramatically.

It’s also useful for communicating your hypothesis to others. The basic structure places the conclusion or main message at the top and lists the supporting rationales on the bottom, like the supporting bricks of a pyramid.

There are two main types of hypothesis pyramid: the grouping structure and the argument structure.

The Problem

The answers using a Hypothesis Pyramid

Step 4: Check the hypothesis

4A: Determine the analysis and information required to test the hypothesis.

Once you come up with a hypothesis for how your will achieve your goal, your next step is to figure out what analyses and information will be required to test your hypothesis.

4B: Analyze and develop an Action Plan

The Most Critical Step is Execution.

You have worked all the way through the process from the beginning of this guide. You set a clear goal, figured out the gap between your goal and your current situation, formed hypotheses on how you could close that gap, and checked your hypotheses to make sure they would work.

Now you have reached the most critical step: execution.

The impact of your actions is determined by the following equation:

Impact = plan effectiveness x quality of execution

To achieve the most impact, you need to have an effective plan and great execution. If you have one but not the other, you won’t be able to reach your goal. You need both.

Once you have a concrete plan of action to achieve your goal, don’t forget to create a concrete schedule. Write down everything you are going to do, and when you plan to do it.

Remember to monitor your progress and revise your plan as necessary. Very few things in life ever go as perfectly as planned.

How to Correctly Weigh the Pros and Cons of Your Decisions

The Problem solver is a great decision-maker.

They rarely regret their choices because they take the time beforehand to consider all their options and figure out the best decision for them personally.

PROBLEM-SOLVING TOOL-BOX: Pros and Cons: Criteria and Evaluation

Two tools are very helpful when you need to evaluate multiple options and select the best one.

Tool 1: Pros and Cons

The first tool is called pros and cons. This tool helps you broaden your options and ensures that you consider both the good aspects (pros) and bad aspects (cons) before making a final decision.

Step 1: List All the Options

Step 2: List the Pros and Cons of Each of the Options

Next list all the pros and cons of each of the options. Even if you think a certain option is the most attractive, get into the habit of asking yourself, “Aren’t there negative aspects? Are there other positive aspects?”

We tend to be swayed by our first impressions.

If we first think something is attractive, we tend to try to collect evidence that supports that idea. On the other hand. if we think something is unattractive, we tend to highlight only its negative points.

It is critical to avoid this tendency to make a sound decision.

Step 3: Weight each of the positive and negative points you listed

Not all the arguments for or against each choice have the same importance. The next step is to assign a weight to each of the items.

Step 4: Select the Most Attractive Option

Tool 2: Criteria and Evaluation

The next tool is the criteria and evaluation. You can use this tool to clarify which criteria, or qualifications, you should use to evaluate your options and decide the importance of each set of criteria. and effectively evaluate your options.

  1. List All the Options
  2. List the Evaluation Criteria
  3. Decide the Degree of importance of each criterion

You can use three levels, like high, medium, and low, or you can use a 10-point scale.

Step 4: Evaluate Each Option Based on the Weighted Criteria

Step 5: Select the Most Attractive Option

Solving Problems Effectively Will Ultimately Change Your Life

Spend less time worrying about things and more time thinking about actions you can take to get closer to your goals, then actually take action. Be a problem solver.

Ask for advice. You don’t have to figure everything out on your own. Look for information to help you make the best decision in the given time.

Challenge your thinking processes and your conclusions.

Ask the following questions:

  • What are the pros and cons? Do I have the full list? Which option looks more attractive considering both the pros and the cons? Are the pros and cons really pros and cons? What actions could I take to enhance the pros and to minimize or eliminate the cons?
  • What are the specific criteria I should be using? Do I have the right ones? Am I weighing each criterion the right way?
  • Is my evaluation correct? What information am I basing my evaluation on? Is it accurate, up-to-date, and unbiased?
  • What actions could I take to improve the attractiveness of my options?

Problem-solving is easy when you know how to set a clear goal, figure out how to reach it, and follow through while reviewing your progress and making changes to your plan as necessary.

If you develop a habit of being a problem solver, you’ll be able to make the most of your talents and take control of your life.

You can solve not only your own problems, but the problems of your work, your business, and your community – and maybe even the world.

N.B: This article is largely inspired and takes a lot of its source material from the book, Problem Solving 101 by Ken Watanabe.

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Technical Superiority: Why Intuition Can’t be Found in Books

If you think reading more or taking additional courses will give you all the answers, this story will change your mind.

In 2020, Netflix dropped a brilliant mini-series called The Queen’s Gambit, centred around a quiet but formidable orphan named Beth Harmon who rises through the male-dominated world of competitive chess.

An encyclopaedic knowledge of chess fuels Beth’s rise, yet she repeatedly faces moments where raw intellect isn’t enough.

In those moments, she doesn’t play the game by convention. Beth plays it by instinct.

And as she climbs the ladder, beating seasoned grandmasters in smoke-filled rooms with nothing but her calm glare and lightning mind, you realize something:

Beth isn’t just memorizing chess patterns. She’s seeing them.

In The Queen’s Gambit, Beth Harmon’s chess mastery did not come from memorization alone, but from moments where she closes her eyes and feels the board.

But there’s a painful story before she fully mastered chess.

The Short Story of Beth Harmon

You see, Beth was orphaned at a young age, after which she was placed in an institution where she first discovered chess.

Later, she was adopted by Alma Wheatley, a kind woman who recognized Beth’s extraordinary talent and supported her chess career despite knowing little about the game herself.

As Beth plays more professional chess, she begins to rely heavily on study and technical preparation, developing an obsessive relationship with perfection and channelling it to her games.

While Beth rises to the top of the chess world and reaps the financial benefits of her success, her performance worsens because of her increased dependency on drugs and alcohol.

However, Alma had been watching Beth’s journey and understood that true mastery required more than just technical knowledge. Or reliance on substances and alcohol abuse.

Alma had also learned something that all the chess books and training couldn’t teach and tried to pass this wisdom to Beth throughout their time together and this fell to deaf ears.

You see, Beth disregarded Alma because she didn’t really know much about chess.

But as Beth grew older and faced increasingly difficult opponents, she began to understand what Alma had been trying to tell her.  A full mastery of chess will only come from the source of technical superiority.

I will come back to technical superiority in a bit.

Eventually, as Beth faced increasingly sophisticated opponents, she discovered there was something missing from all her preparation. In her final breakthrough moment, Beth recalls Alma’s words which makes her rethink everything she thought she knew about mastery.

Her adoptive mother Alma, watching her obsess over strategy books, once told her: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Pause and let that sink in.

When its meaning dawns on you, keep reading.

Now let’s talk about technical superiority.

Technical Superiority

In football, technical superiority is what happens when a player has mastered the basics to such an elite level that they can create space and time out of thin air.

Regardless of pressure, system, or opponent, these football players execute the fundamental techniques of the game with precision, control, and consistency.

Technical superiority means having better ball mastery, allowing for more creative, efficient, and confident play than opponents.

The best football players in the world have this trait.

It’s why Messi can weave through defenders not just with speed but with minimal touches.

Technical superiority is why Iniesta always had three passing options even in a 2-square-meter box and dictated the pace of their football games.

It’s how Cristiano Ronaldo had a consistent ability to strike from distance or volley with both feet.

Technical superiority is not just about skill.

It means doing the basics so well that they become weapons.

It’s about that rare combination of feel, timing, and instinct that can’t be drilled into you.

You either sense the opening, or you don’t.

Now apply this to your life.

Think of the moments you got stuck in analysis paralysis because you didn’t trust your instincts.

The relationship you stayed too long in because the logic made sense… but your heart felt trapped.

The job offer you took because the pay was good… but your chest tightened every morning you had to show up.

How many times have you ignored the quiet whisper inside you because you couldn’t explain it yet?

How many times have you delayed the right move because you couldn’t find it in a manual, a course, or a quote from a Harvard business review article?

Apply Technical Superiority to your Life

 

Don’t confuse knowledge with knowing

We’ve been raised to believe that mastery is only acquired through accumulation.

Read more books.

Watch more tutorials.

Take one more course.

But the truth is… There comes a point when more information blinds you.

Where you’ve read so much theory you can’t hear your own thoughts.

You’re academically sound, yes… but spiritually deaf.

What Alma, Beth’s adoptive mother said wasn’t just a warning.

It was an alarm.

A code-red for the overeducated, overinformed generation who confuse knowledge with knowing.

Intuition can’t be found in books.

You can’t Google it.

You must live it.

You must sit with yourself in silence.

Feel your own patterns.

Watch your own mind.

And eventually, you’ll start to see the board.

Not the one they taught you in class.

The one that only your eyes can see.

And when you do…

You’ll stop playing by memory.

You’ll start playing by mastery.

This life is not a textbook.

It’s a chessboard. It’s a football game.

And no two games are ever the same.

Stop trying to memorize every outcome.

Instead, trust that feeling.

That strange but familiar sense that something is either deeply right or unmistakably off.

Train and hone this feeling by practicing what you have learned and consistently execution

The algorithm can’t teach you that.

Only you can.

Play Life to hone and master your technical superiority

So please, whatever story you’re living through right now…

Don’t search for all the answers on someone else’s page.

This is your move.

And now, once and for all, let the books serve their purpose and trust what they cannot teach.

Remember Alma’s words: “Intuition can’t be found in books.”

Now go show the world how your game is played.

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