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November 23, 2025

Attention: The Most Valuable Asset You’ll Ever Own

Your attention is being stolen right now.

Every notification. The autoplay videos. Every infinite scroll.

They’re all designed to extract the one resource you can never get back.

While you’re giving it away for free, tech giants are building trillion-dollar empires with it.

Philosopher Simone Weil understood this deeply: “Attention is the rarest and purest form of generosity.”

Yet most of us scatter this precious gift like loose change, unaware we’re trading our most valuable currency for digital entertainment.

The truth is what you pay attention to shapes who you become.

Tell me what you pay attention to and I will tell you who you are – Philosopher José Ortega y Gasset.

This is your guide to understanding, reclaiming, and mastering this priceless asset.

It’s time to stop paying attention and start investing it.

What Attention Actually is (and How it Became Currency)

Attention is the ability to consciously direct your focus to people, ideas, or experiences.

It’s the mental energy you invest when something matters enough to demand your awareness.

In the digital age, attention has become the world’s most traded commodity.

Social media platforms, streaming services, and advertisers aren’t selling products anymore; they’re buying your attention (they call it data) and reselling it to the highest bidder.

Think about the platforms you use.

Facebook doesn’t charge you money. Neither does Instagram, TikTok, or YouTube.

You’re not the customer. You’re the product.

Your attention is what they’re harvesting and monetising.

Platforms care about one thing above all else: can they hook your attention and maintain it?

YouTube tracks watch time.
Instagram measures if viewers watch your entire Reel.
TikTok monitors completion rates.

Every metric points to the same goal. They want to keep you watching, scrolling and clicking.

Whoever captures the most attention wins.

Attention became a currency when the world realised it could be bought, sold, stolen, and monetised.

A celebrity is just someone who has more attention than you.
A politician is someone who knows how to control attention.
A billionaire content creator is someone who has mastered the art of earning it.

And here’s the uncomfortable truth: if you’re not controlling your attention, someone else is profiting from it.

Companies spend billions engineering features to make you check “just one more time.”

Autoplay. Push notifications. Infinite scroll.

These aren’t accidents; they’re weapons in the war for your focus.

Your Attention is a Currency

Why You Must Reclaim Your Attention and Monitor It Closely

If you don’t monitor your attention, you’re making four critical mistakes.

1. The Identity Cost: Your Attention Determines Your Reality

What you focus on expands.

Direct your attention toward negativity, and your world becomes darker. Focus on opportunity, and possibilities multiply.

Your brain can’t distinguish between what you’re experiencing and what you’re repeatedly thinking about. Scroll through disaster news for hours, and your nervous system responds as if you’re living through each crisis personally.

Your brain literally rewires itself based on what you consistently pay attention to.

2. The Time Cost: Attention Is Your Most Finite Resource

Money can be earned back. Time passes regardless.

But attention is both limited and irreplaceable.

You have roughly 16 waking hours each day. That’s your entire attention budget. Once spent, it’s gone forever.

Every moment you give to something trivial is a moment stolen from something meaningful.

That hour lost to social media doom-scrolling? That’s an hour you’ll never get back to build your business, strengthen relationships, or develop skills.

The opportunity cost of mismanaged attention is staggering.

It’s the book unwritten. The skill unlearned. Relationships neglected. The dream abandoned because you were too distracted to pursue it.

3. The Value Cost: Scattered Attention Kills Your Potential

Deep work, i.e. the ability to focus without distraction, is becoming rare.

And rare skills become valuable. Research shows it takes an average of 23 minutes to fully regain focus after an interruption. Check your phone once an hour, and you never actually achieve deep focus.

You’re operating at the surface level all day.

The people achieving extraordinary results aren’t smarter than you. They’ve simply mastered the art of sustained, undivided attention. They go deep while others stay shallow.

Reclaiming your attention is the first step to producing high-value work.

4. The Peace Cost: You Become What You Pay Attention To

Show me your screen time report, and I’ll show you your priorities.

Show me your search history, and I’ll tell you your future.

Your attention is the steering wheel of your life. Point it toward gossip, drama, and entertainment, and that’s the life you’ll build. Direct it toward learning, creating, and growth, and you transform.

Every moment of attention is a vote for the person you’re becoming.

Why You Must Reclaim Your Attention

How to Reclaim and Monitor Your Attention

To counter the four reasons above, you need a systematic plan.

This Four-Step Framework directly aligns with the costs of a distracted life, helping you become a master of attention.

Step 1: Create Your Reality Through Intentional Input

Audit every information source currently competing for your attention.

Unfollow accounts that trigger comparison or negativity. Unsubscribe from emails you never read. Delete apps that don’t serve your goals.

Your inputs shape your outputs.

Replace passive consumption with active creation. Spend less time watching others succeed and more time building your own success.

Set boundaries around news consumption. You don’t need 24/7 updates. Check once daily, maximum.

The truly important stuff will reach you.

Step 2: Guard Your Finite Attention Budget

Track where your attention actually goes.

Use screen time reports. You can’t manage what you don’t measure.

Implement time blocking. Assign specific attention to specific tasks. When it’s work time, work. When it’s rest time, rest. No mixing.

Create attention rituals.

Start mornings without checking your phone. End days without screens. Protect the bookends of your day because they set the tone for everything between.

Learn to say no. Every yes to something trivial is a no to something meaningful. Protect your attention like you protect your money. Because it’s far more valuable.

Step 3: Train for Deep Focus

Practice single-tasking.

Do one thing at a time with complete presence. Close all tabs except what you’re working on. Put your phone in another room.

Build your attention muscle gradually.

Start with 25-minute focus sessions. Rest. Repeat. Slowly extend the duration as your capacity grows.

Remove environmental distractions before they remove your focus. Work in notification-free zones. Use website blockers. Create physical spaces dedicated to deep work.

Embrace boredom.

Don’t reach for your phone every time you feel under-stimulated. Boredom is where creativity lives. Let your mind wander without digital interference.

Step 4: Align Your Attention With Your Identity

Define who you want to become.

Then audit whether your current attention patterns support or sabotage that vision.

If you want to be a writer, are you reading and writing daily? If you want to be healthy, are you studying nutrition and moving your body?

Your attention reveals your real priorities.

Schedule attention for what matters most. Put your most important work during your peak energy hours. Don’t give social media your best attention and your dreams the leftovers.

Review weekly. Ask yourself: “Did my attention this week move me closer to who I want to be?” Adjust accordingly. This practice alone will transform your life.

How to Capture and Maintain the Attention of Other People

This part matters because attention isn’t only something you protect. It’s something you can earn.

And earning attention ethically is one of the most powerful advantages in life.

Let’s break it down.

1. Be interesting before being visible

A lot of people try to build an audience before building a life. This is wrong.

If your life is empty, your content will be too. If your experiences are thin, your ideas won’t land.

People pay attention to people who actually live.

2. Speak with clarity

Confusing messages lose attention instantly.

Say things simply and in your own words. Share your message like a human, not a textbook or AI chatbot.

Clarity cuts through noise.

3. Tell stories

Humans don’t follow data.

They follow emotion, tension, and narrative.

Share what you’ve lived, not what you’ve read.

4. Deliver value fast

The first 10 seconds decide everything.

If you don’t hook people immediately, they’re gone. Front-load value. Say something sharp.

Give people a reason to stay.

5. Be consistent

Attention is a flame.

If you don’t feed it, it dies.

People remember what you repeat.

6. Maintain mystery

Don’t overshare every detail of your life.

Leave questions unanswered. Leave paths half-visible.

A little curiosity keeps attention alive far longer than loud self-promotion.

Masters of Attention: Case Studies in Success

The most successful people in history and the modern era understood the gravity of attention.

They didn’t just chase their goals; they orchestrated a strategy to capture and maintain the world’s focus long enough to achieve massive impact.

Here are five examples of individuals who mastered attention as a currency:

1. Elon Musk: The Attention Architect

Musk understands attention as leverage.

Every tweet is calculated. Every announcement generates headlines. He’s built companies worth hundreds of billions partly through his mastery of capturing public attention.

Whether launching rockets or posting memes, he keeps the world watching. And that attention translates to investment, talent acquisition, and cultural influence.

2. Oprah Winfrey: The Presence That Transformed Media

Oprah built an empire on giving others her complete attention.

Her interviews felt different because she truly listened. She made guests feel seen. That presence, that quality of attention, created trust. And this trust captured the sustained attention of millions for decades.

Oprah’s book club recommendations became instant bestsellers. Because people trusted where she directed her attention.

3. Linda Ikeji: Nigeria’s Blog Queen

Linda Ikeji turned attention into an empire.

Starting with a simple blog, she captured Nigeria’s attention by understanding what people wanted to read. She posted consistently, covered trending topics, and built an audience of millions. That attention translated into advertising revenue, then expanded into a music platform, a social network, and a TV station.

Linda proved that capturing and maintaining attention in your market can transform everything, regardless of where you start.

4. Gary Vaynerchuk: The Content Machine

Gary Vee recognised early that attention was shifting to social media.

He didn’t just create content; he flooded every platform simultaneously. His strategy was to be everywhere, all the time, with maximum value.

Gary Vee turned his attention to understanding each platform’s algorithm and audience behaviour. That focus on where attention was moving, not where it had been, built his media empire.

5. MrBeast: Engineering Viral Attention

Jimmy Donaldson studied YouTube’s algorithm like a scientist.

He obsessed over retention rates, thumbnail psychology, and pacing. Every video is engineered to capture and maintain attention. His reward? Over 200 million subscribers and deals worth hundreds of millions.

Mr Beast proves that understanding attention mechanics and respecting your audience’s time creates exponential results.

Your Attention, Your Life

Attention is a currency of life.

You pay attention when something matters to you and demands focus.

The question is: are you spending this currency intentionally, or is it being stolen without your awareness?

The world will constantly try to extract your attention. Algorithms will seduce you. Notifications will interrupt you. Distractions will multiply.

Your job is simple but not easy: decide what deserves your attention, then protect it fiercely.

Because in the end, your life is nothing more than the sum of what you paid attention to.

Spending and investing your attention wisely is how you become your highest self.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on how to master money, mindset and meaning.
Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you. This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
Personal Wealth Maximizer: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximizer give you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.

November 16, 2025

Multitasking: The Silent Killer of Your Progress

Multitasking is just a clever name for a common illusion.

You scroll through emails during a meeting. Then you listen to a podcast while writing a report. You feel busy, even productive.

But you are living an illusion.

You never really do two tasks at once. Instead, you switch back and forth, eroding both focus and productivity. When trying to handle two or more tasks simultaneously, you handle none of them as well as you could.

The science is clear: multitasking doesn’t make you more productive.

Your time and attention are a zero-sum game. You are either in or out. No in-between.

Multitasking makes you worse at everything.

Because it is not doing many things at once. Rather, it’s refusing to commit to one thing long enough for it to matter. Yet we still chase the illusion, convinced that juggling multiple tasks is a badge of honour.

So, let’s tear this illusion apart and understand what multitasking really costs you.

What Multitasking Really Means For Your Growth

Multitasking is the attempt to perform two or more tasks simultaneously or switching rapidly between tasks.

The truth is your brain doesn’t actually multitask; it simply switches. Over and Over. And each switch costs you time, energy, and mental clarity.

When you multitask, you kill the two things your growth depends on:

Attention
Deliberate practice

And every time you fragment your attention, you rob yourself of the deep work that produces real growth.

Becoming the best version of yourself isn’t about doing more things. It’s about doing the right things with full presence and attention. When you eliminate multitasking, you create space for the kind of focused effort that transforms your capabilities.

You can’t build expertise while your mind is scattered across five different priorities.

The Four Hidden Dangers of Multitasking

The cost of this illusion is far greater than just slow progress. Multitasking infiltrates and weakens the very foundations of your performance and well-being.

Danger 1: Multitasking Shreds Your Focus

Your brain has limited processing power.

When you multitask, you force it to constantly shift gears, burning through mental energy at an accelerated rate. This isn’t efficient. It wastes your time, energy and attention.

Each task switch creates a “switching cost” – a brief moment where your brain must reorient itself. These micro-moments add up to hours of lost productivity each week. More critically, they drain your willpower and decision-making capacity.

By the end of a multitasking-heavy day, you’re mentally depleted.

You have nothing left for creative thinking, strategic planning, or the deep work that actually moves your life forward.

Danger 2: Multitasking Stops Deep Work

Multitasking may feel like fun, but it’s unsuitable for rapid skill development as it requires concentrating on the task at hand.

You produce more drafts but fewer masterpieces. At work, you answer more emails but solve fewer complex problems. You trade excellence for the mere appearance of activity.

With multitasking, you never stay long enough with one task to hit flow.

When your attention is divided, details slip through the cracks.

You make mistakes you wouldn’t normally make. Your work becomes sloppy, requiring more time for corrections and revisions. Quality suffers because excellence requires presence.

The output you create while multitasking is always a pale shadow of what you’re truly capable of.

Danger 3: Multitasking Increases Stress and Mental Fatigue

Multitasking is like constantly pulling up a plant.

This kind of constant shifting of your attention means that new ideas and concepts have no chance to take root and flourish. Learning requires consolidation. Your brain needs uninterrupted time to process information and build neural connections.

When you multitask, you interrupt this vital process.

Because of this, information stays surface-level and never integrates into deep understanding. You end up knowing a little about many things but mastering nothing.

With multitasking, you collect facts but fail to develop wisdom.

Danger 4: Multitasking Damages Relationships and Connections

Multitasking poisons your relationships.

It’s true. When you check your phone during conversations or think about work while spending time with loved ones, you communicate that the person in front of you isn’t worth your full attention.

People can sense when you’re not truly present.

They feel the emotional distance created by your divided focus. Over time, this erosion of presence damages trust and intimacy.

The deepest connections in life require full presence.

Multitasking ensures you’ll never experience the richness that comes from being fully engaged with another human being.

How to Break Free from the Multitasking Trap

Solutions for Danger 1: Cognitive Overload

Time blocking: Assign specific blocks of time to individual tasks.

During each block, that task owns your complete attention.

No email, no phone, no “quick checks” of anything else.

This structure eliminates decision fatigue and protects your mental energy.

The Two-Minute Rule: If a task takes less than two minutes, do it immediately.

If it takes longer, schedule it.

This prevents the mental clutter of accumulated small tasks while ensuring you don’t fragment your attention for minor items.

Solutions for Danger #2: Quality Issues

Single-task sprints: Focus on the process (the way you spend your time) instead of the product (what you want to accomplish).

Set a timer for 25-50 minutes and commit to working on one task only.

This creates urgency while maintaining singular focus, dramatically improving output quality.

Quality checkpoints: Build review time into your schedule.

After completing focused work, take time to evaluate and refine it.

This separation between creation and evaluation produces higher quality than trying to do both simultaneously.

Solutions for Danger #3: Shallow Learning

Deep work sessions: Schedule daily periods of at least 90 minutes for learning or skill development.

Eliminate all distractions and immerse yourself completely.

This allows the consolidation necessary for genuine mastery.

Teach what you learn: After learning something new, explain it to someone else or write about it.

This forced articulation reveals gaps in your understanding and cements the knowledge.

You can’t teach what you haven’t truly learned.

Solutions for Danger #4: Relationship Damage

Device-free interactions: Make the most of one opportunity and more opportunities will come your way.

When with others, put your phone away. Not on the table, not face-down, but actually away.

This simple act communicates respect and creates space for real connection.

Presence practice: Before entering any interaction, take three deep breaths and consciously commit to being fully present.

Notice when your mind wanders to other tasks and gently redirect it.

Presence is a skill that improves with practice.

Real People Who Won by Focusing on Less

You’re not the only one who had to learn this the hard way.

Successful people across industries have discovered that single-tasking produces extraordinary results.

Cal Newport, a computer science professor and author, built his career on deep work principles. He never checks email more than twice a day and refuses to use social media.

Despite these “limitations,” he’s published multiple books, maintains a successful academic career, and produces more meaningful work than most multitasking professionals.

Warren Buffett famously advises people to make a list of their top 25 goals, circle the top 5, and avoid the other 20 at all costs.

Moving boldly in one direction causes more paths to unfold before you. To get more, focus on less. His singular focus on value investing, free of distractions from trendy alternatives, made him one of the world’s wealthiest individuals.

Maya Angelou rented a hotel room every day to write, bringing only a dictionary, thesaurus, Bible, and cards.

No phone. No distractions.

This extreme single-tasking produced some of the most powerful literature of our time. She understood that great work emerges from undivided attention.

These individuals share a common thread: they rejected the multitasking myth and embraced focused attention.

Their success didn’t come from doing more things. It came from doing fewer things better.

The Path Forward: Single-Tasking Is the Real Superpower

The multitasking trap is seductive because it feels productive.

The busyness creates the illusion of progress. Real progress happens in the quiet spaces of focused attention. It happens when you give yourself fully to one thing and see it through.

True progress happens when you resist the urge to scatter your energy across multiple priorities.

Your attention is your most valuable resource.

Once spent, you can never reclaim it. The question isn’t whether you can afford to stop multitasking. The question is whether you can afford to continue.

Every moment you choose focus over fragmentation, you invest in becoming the best version of yourself.

By focusing on one task at a time, you can achieve more, learn faster, and feel less stressed. The path to more runs directly through less. Stop dividing yourself and start multiplying your impact.

Every meaningful achievement in your future depends on your ability to focus on one thing long enough to finish it.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on how to master money, mindset and meaning.
Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you. This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
Personal Wealth Maximizer: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximizer give you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.

November 9, 2025

Skill Issue: Anything Can Be Learned and Solved

Every unsolved problem in your life points to a skill issue.

Think about it: if you had the skill, the problem would already be solved.

If you knew how to communicate better, that relationship conflict wouldn’t exist.
If you understood money, your finances wouldn’t stress you out.
If you mastered focus, procrastination wouldn’t haunt you.

Most of what we call “problems” are really just things we don’t yet know how to do.

And once you see this, everything changes.

Why Problems Linger: The Four Traps

If every problem is simply a skill issue, why do so many issues stay unresolved, year after year?

The answer lies in four major traps we fall into when facing challenges.

Trap 1: We Wait for Perfect Conditions

Most people wait for the “right time” to tackle their problems. They tell themselves they’ll start when they have more money, more time, more energy, or more support.

But perfect conditions never come. Meanwhile, the problem grows while you wait.

Trap 2: We Blame External Circumstances

It’s easier to point fingers at the economy, our upbringing, our boss, or our environment than to look in the mirror.

External factors matter, but they become convenient excuses that keep us stuck.

Trap 3: We Lack Clear Systems and Processes

Many problems persist because we approach them randomly. We try something once, give up when it doesn’t work immediately, then try something completely different.

No consistency. No system. Just chaos.

Trap 4: We Don’t Have the Skills to Solve Them

This is the biggest trap of why problems remain unsolved.

You can have all the motivation in the world, but if you lack the specific skills needed to tackle your challenge, you’re just spinning your wheels.

A person who wants to build a business but has no skills in sales, marketing, or financial management will struggle endlessly.

Someone who wants better relationships but hasn’t developed communication or emotional intelligence skills will keep hitting the same walls.

The harsh reality is that your problems are customised to expose your weaknesses.

They’re showing you exactly where you need to grow.

Why Your Problems Will Remain Unsolved Without Skill Development

If you don’t develop the skills, the problem wins. It’s that simple.

You can’t manifest your way out of a skill issue.

The gap between where you are and where you want to be is filled with specific, learnable skills.

Without developing these skills, you’ll keep encountering the same problems in different disguises.

The person who can’t communicate effectively will struggle in every relationship, whether romantic, professional, or personal.

Someone who can’t manage their time will feel overwhelmed in every season of life.

The person who can’t delay gratification will sabotage every goal they set.

Your problems are teachers. They’re showing up repeatedly because you haven’t learned the lesson yet. And that lesson is always a skill waiting to be developed.

Here’s what happens when you stop developing skills:

You stay dependent on others to solve your problems. Also, you remain stuck at your current level. You waste time trying the same ineffective approaches.

And worst of all, you start believing the problem is permanent when it’s actually just a temporary skill issue.

What Are Skills and How Do They Solve Your Problems?

As time goes on, you will realise that a person’s life changes when they discover everything is a skill.

The goal you currently strive for is just a couple of skills you must learn and build.

Discipline is a skill. Patience is a skill. Being funny is a skill.

Socialising is a skill. Making Money is a skill. Saving money is a skill.

Being good at anything is a skill. Everything now depends on your skillset.

A skill is your ability to do something well.

I love how wild_stoic puts it – “Skills are not magical words that you either do or don’t have. They are things that you build through repetition.”

This makes it simple to understand because repetition leads to Mastery. And mastery leads to the fulfilment of your goal.

Your Skill Issue might be the Underlying Problem

Think of skills as the bridge between your current reality and your desired future. Every skill you master is another bridge you can cross, another problem you can solve, another level you can reach.

The beautiful thing about skills is that they compound. Learning one skill often makes the next skill easier to learn.

For instance, improving your communication skills help you network, which helps you build business skills, which helps you develop leadership skills. It’s a beautiful upward spiral.

How to Turn a Problem into a Skill (Or Set of Skills)

To break free from the skill issue trap, you need a process. You need a framework to transform a large, scary problem into a small, manageable, repeatable task.

This framework is in 3 steps:

Step 1: Break It into Chunks and Daily Tasks

The brain hates complexity.

When something feels “too big,” it shuts down. That’s why most people procrastinate. To beat this, chunk the problem down.

Chunking is a phenomenon where a task is split into smaller units for easy doing.

To begin chunking, ask yourself:

What is the smallest single element of this skill that I can master?
What other chunks link to that chunk?

Practice one chunk by itself until you’ve mastered it. Then connect more chunks, one by one, exactly as you would combine letters to form a word. Then combine those chunks into still bigger chunks. And so on.

Go a step further by creating a daily action.

Which daily task would you need to complete to make noticeable, progressive progress in your selected skill?

An Example is Elon Musk and Rocket Science

When Elon Musk decided to build SpaceX, he didn’t have aerospace engineering skills.

Elon could have seen this as an impossible problem. Instead, he broke it down. He started by reading textbooks on rocket propulsion. Then he learned about materials science. Then orbital mechanics.

Each concept was a chunk he mastered before moving to the next. Elon Musk didn’t try to understand everything at once. He chunked it.

Step 2: Execute with 30 for 30 or with Deep Work

Execution turns plans into reality. Use these two methods for momentum:

30-for-30: Do the daily task for 30 minutes per day for 30 straight days. 30 days is meaningful enough as a commitment that you can’t be half-in, but 30 minutes is short enough that you can convince yourself to take it on.

900 minutes of effort in a single month is enough to create tangible progress that will keep you pushing forward. This is the optimal approach for getting started on any new area of progress.

Deep Work: Deep work means carving out 1-2 blocks of time per day when you will enter a deeply focused state to make progress against your area of choice.

These blocks are generally 1-2 hours for most people and should be completed without distraction. This is the optimal strategy for big professional goals.

Recommendation: Start with 30-for-30 and then transition to Deep Work after a few months if you feel motivated and energised to go harder.

A direct example would be Cal Newport and writing best-selling books

Cal Newport, the author who popularised this second method of execution, is a master of Deep Work.

His problem was navigating an intense academic career while also producing multiple, complex best-selling books. Cal solved this by creating a highly regimented skill: scheduled, distraction-free deep work blocks.

Cal did not rely on inspiration. He relied on the practised skill of focused execution, which allowed him to achieve a high output with exceptional quality.

Step 3: Teach Others What You Are Learning

The ultimate test of your knowledge is your capacity to transfer it to another.

The Feynman Technique is a simple and popular way of teaching others while developing mastery over your newly acquired skill. There are four steps to his method:

Teach your skill in its simplest form.
Identify gaps in your explanation. Go back to the source material to better understand it.
Organise and simplify your information.
Transmit and transfer till the other person understands it.

But remember, apply the skill or solve your problem before you teach or share with others.

How Richard Feynman became the reference example for teaching others.

The Nobel Prize-winning physicist would take complex concepts from quantum mechanics and try to explain them to undergraduates. In forcing himself to simplify, he often found new insights and a deeper mastery of his own field.

When you can teach something simply, you’ve truly learned it.

How to Overcome Your Skill Issue

Real People Who Solved Their Problems Through Skills

Let’s look at real examples of successful people who transformed their lives by developing the right skills:

1. Oprah Winfrey: Communication and Emotional Intelligence

Oprah faced poverty, abuse, and discrimination early in life.

These weren’t problems she could wish away. She developed exceptional communication skills, learned how to connect with people authentically, and mastered the art of storytelling.

These skills transformed Oprah Winfrey from a local news anchor to a global media mogul.

2. Tony Elumelu: Financial Literacy and Strategic Thinking

The Nigerian banker and entrepreneur didn’t start wealthy.

Tony faced the common problem many Nigerians face: limited economic opportunities. Instead of complaining, he developed deep skills in banking, investment, and strategic business thinking. He learned how money moves, how businesses scale, and how to create value.

Today, he’s one of Africa’s most successful entrepreneurs and philanthropists, having built a business empire and created the Tony Elumelu Foundation to empower other African entrepreneurs.

3. Arnold Schwarzenegger: Multiple Skill Stacking

Arnold arrived in America with nothing but a bodybuilding title.

He faced language barriers, limited connections, and no clear path forward. But he didn’t see these as permanent obstacles. He developed skills in real estate investing while still bodybuilding.

Then Arnold learned acting skills, taking speech lessons to improve his English. Then he learned political skills and communication.

Each skill solved a different problem and stacking them made him unstoppable.

It Only Gets Better from Here On

When you see things from this angle, I strongly believe you can do anything you want if you practice it enough.

You no longer have an excuse not to do anything.

Your unsolved problems aren’t proof that you’re broken. They’re simply showing you which skills you need to develop next.

Your life changes when your skill issue is solved

The person with financial problems needs financial literacy skills. Relationship problems need communication and emotional regulation skills. The person with career problems needs either technical skills, people skills, or both.

Stop seeing your problems as evidence of your limitations. Start seeing them as your personalised curriculum for growth.

Every expert was once a beginner.

The only difference between someone who solved their problem and someone who’s still stuck is that one person committed to developing the necessary skills while the other kept waiting for circumstances to change.

The problems in your life aren’t going anywhere until you grow into the person who has the skills to solve them.

So, what problem have you been avoiding? What skill would solve it if you developed it?

Answering these two questions will determine your next move.

Build the skill, and the problem will disappear.

It’s not magic. It’s just practice.

Whenever you’re ready, there are 3 ways I can help you:

Become Your Highest Self Newsletter: Every Sunday, I share actionable tips from successful people on how to master money, mindset and meaning.
Fast Track Book: Stay relevant, master new skills, and be ready for whatever life throws at you. This is the complete roadmap to speed up your learning process and expand the opportunities available to you. Available on Amazon.
Personal Wealth Maximizer: Take control of your finances and build financial freedom. The Personal Wealth Maximizer give you the exact knowledge and tools to break free from money struggles and build financial confidence.